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BM stopping skids from coming to our wedding celebration.

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Not sure if I should be happy or not. It would be nice to have the skids there but I was dreading the drama that Slore (BM) would try to create. The skids said they both wanted to come. But the wedding is on a weekend that DH doesn't have visitation. The way all the arrangements etc lined up it had to be a non visitation weekend. I've been going through plans with SD13, what her bridesmaid dress will be and what style the hair dresser will do her hair. But yesterday Slore BM said she wouldn't let's the skids attend.

Skids always change pick up times.

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DH has visitation every other weekend and every Wednesday night. The court agreement he should have them from 6pm Friday till 6pm Sunday. But when it's his visitation weekend he normally takes them Saturday at 2pm till Subday 6pm. He has to give BM 24 hours email notice to change his pickup time, he normally emails her a week in advance. Why doesn't he take the kids for the full visitation time, because he normally works night shift on Fridays.

Just for your sanity ladies

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DH and I have invented a great game I thought I'd share with you. We call it Tiny House Nation.

While watching an episode of Tiny House Nation on TV, DH and I commented on how many times the presenters etc say with 'Tiny House' or 'Tiny Home.' They say it all the bloody time!!

Game goes like this, get a beer or glass of wine and start watching the TV show. Every time you hear someone say 'Tiny House' or 'Tiny Home' you take a sip. Often you have to pause the TV so you can catch up, sometimes they use those words 2-3 times in one sentence.

It was a great week!

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I won't go into too much detail but we had a great week. We got married on Sunday, it was wonderful and we're more loved up than ever! And DH won against BM in court during the week! She tried to be malicious and it completely blew up in her face. She gained absolutely nothing, the case was thrown out and she has to pick up her large lawyer bill.

It cost DH nothing to go to court as it's covered under my legal insurance. Hopefully BM will think twice about trying to take DH on again. We have a sh1t hot lawyer who will obliterate her in court again if she tries.

OH and I are getting married.

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Ladies I need some advice......OH and I have decided to get married, we've been together 4 years. That's all going well, we are getting married in the US where we live. But we're also having a big ceremony and reception in the UK, that's where I'm from. We've been engaged for two years and OH has told his kids we're planning the wedding in the UK. SD13 is excited, I have a good relationship with her but SS11 is a poisonous mini husband to BM and does passive aggressive crap a lot.

Trust.....

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My friend is having an issue with her boyfriend. Together 5 years, she just found out he was sleeping with someone else for the first month of their relationship. She only found out when she found his old phone. He tried lying about it at first and then he finally admitted to it. He promises her it was just at the start. He's lied to her about other things too which she always seems to brush off as nothing. I'd string my man up by the balls if he did this to me.

How sick is this.....

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Not only is BM an evil, PASing narcissistic/sociopath/borderline. BM sleeps with SS11 every night. They're like lovers cuddled up together every night. Poor SD12 has to listen to them giggling and talking away each morning and night.

Honestly how fu*%ed up is that!?!?

Urgent advice needed- divorce settlement

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I'm hoping someone can advise. My OH met with his lawyer and BM and her lawyer today and they got him to sign a divorce settlement. This is only regarding custody time with his children. Well they all signed it and when he came home he showed it to me. It's so unfair towards him and in her favour. I'm stunned my OH and his lawyer need to take the paperwork to court for the judge to stamp it next week. Can we stop this decree? Can't it be renegotiated?

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