Sorry for disappearing but a lot had happened these last few weeks and I just felt like deleting it all and starting over. I am the same cookies as before, just an extra O in the name

Short of the long of it, BS14 isn't here. After many many MANY talks with him and my family, the best thing for him right now is to stay in the US. Also after my family chilled out for a few days, they didn't really want him to leave their home and never come back.