I'm not sure if I ever talked about the fact that my pregnancy was not a good one. My first was high risk the entire pregnancy, and my second was high risk all of the first and most of the second trimester. *Prior* to getting pregnant, I was in very good physical shape. I really love working out (except cardio; I hate cardio). Because of being high risk, I couldn't work out, and then when I wasn't anymore, my OB/GYN told me not to b/c it's not good for the baby for my heart rate to go above 140 (it was 90 resting during my pregnancy).

I tried to disengage myself from the situation with BM, but DH got an email from her yesterday:

[DH]

Just wanted you to know that [SS6] will be starting back to school on August 10. If you would like to visit with him here for these two weeks before school starts that’s fine.

He has a field trip at day camp on the 28th which would be nice if he could keep.

Hope your surgeries have gone well.

If your mother wants to talk to him, tell her to call after 6 pm. We will talk about her visiting with him and work something out.

[XW]

As I posted before, BM refused to sign the CO. FDH's attorney *finally* calls and says the CO was sent to BM's attorney for BM to sign; BM finally signed and, it had been sent to the judge to sign. We get the CO yesterday and the whole thing has been re-written!

I'm not really sure how I feel about this.

On the one hand, it makes logical sense. We are very unlikely to see FSS any time soon. His BM won't follow the CO and FDH's already realised he will have to (and is preparing to) take her to court for violating the custody agreement. As it stands right now, though, FSS probably won't be here this summer. I'm glad to have a nursery for the baby; she was going to be sharing a room with DD9 almost 10, but now each of them will have their own room, so this works out better for all of us who are living here full time.