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Fuck the christmas tree! Don't even give a shit about it anymore

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I'm a month postpartum. My baby is colicky and needy and I do attachment parenting so It's hard to get some stuff done.
This year we have SD for Christmas and I've been wanting to put the tree up for FOREVER but have been waiting for DH to get it out.
It's been weeks (since thanskgiving) and he still hasn't done it. He just keeps putting it off. Since then we've had SD a few times and I even stated that we should take it out while she's here so we can all decorate it. Still he's been procrastinating.

Dh is a sucky father and I got jealous of the BF's mother.

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I hate how he doesn't fucking call SD.
I hate it because it creates a distance between her and us so when she comes over after being gone for a little while, it just feels awkward.
I hate it because I'm having a child with him and how could he not call his kid and check up on her?

Presents - questions!

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So I discussed here a while back how holidays will be changing gin our home based on who has SD that holiday. (Actually the idea came from other SMs here)

Pretty much, Santa visits house SD is at. Not both houses. Or all houses (if you include MIL's and my family's)
Same with Easter Bunny.

Shouldn't have even asked.

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Sd has grown out of her clothes here and buying for her is a pain.
One, like every kid, they hate to try on clothes
And two, SD is very very thin and tall.

We bought her some clothes for school to send back with her to BM's house.
Just a couple of things, and of course we made her try them on.
I found the perfect pair of jeans that fit her well but forgot what size they were.

uh oh, SD wants to stay with us and BM's reaction...

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}:) SD went home last night and the whole time she was whining that it's not fair she was with us for such a short time and is at her mom's house longer.
She made that comment out loud during the exchange saying she wanted to stay with her dad longer. BM looked embarrassed and laughed it off while putting SD into the car - trying to ignore her comment.

I don't want to kiss your sick child.

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DH drives me nutts.

SD is really sick. And she slept for a few hours today. When she got up, she was whiny and she wanted to be all lovey dovey. Of course DH smothers her in love when she wants it. And the sd will walk over to me and try to give me a kiss.

I kindly said "no thank you". I didn't really know what to say, that just popped into my head. I said, "you're sick right now and I don't want to catch it so you shouldn't be kissing anyone till you feel better".

DH gave me a MASSIVE eye roll.
"You couldn't just show her some love?"

Do you fight what skid wears?

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Today we are going out to eat and see a movie with family and a friend.

I'm 35 weeks pregnant and uncomfortable constantly but DH always dresses nice which annoys me on days I can't seem to find something comfy to wear.
He says I can dress like a bum in sweats and a tank and flip flops because I can use my pregnancy as an excuse. Still I hate walking around him looking dingy while he looks nice.

Anyway. So I'm dressed nice like DH. Though I'd love to take off these clothes and throw on a robe, I figured we can get out of the house and look nice doing it.

BM seems to be reasonable for now. &MIL still continues to annoy me.

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Some of you may have saw my previous post (deleted) about Dh's work schedule changing.
Long story short: CO states he gets two weekends a month and 3 on months with 5 weekends. He's to let BM know his weekends 30 days in advance. Also, if there are any changes, he's to let her know 30 days in advance.

Don't think I'm going to win the whole "don't text the woman at work" thing.

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So I know most of you know about my previous posts about DH texting his female HR manager in whom I do not like nor am comfortable with.
She just gives me this feeling. I trust my instincts. She's lied about being an alcoholic to get closer to DH (who has been sober for 13 years).
Most of their texts were work related but she would pry here and there about how Him and I are doing.
How HIS baby is doing and how she can't wait to meet HIS baby. She would send him pictures of baby things.

Do ya'll believe in

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Horoscope sign compatibility?

I've like become obsessed lately since reading more about different signs.
I looked up DH and I (which wasn't very good.)
I even look up people at work to see how well we would get along. Even skid! Lol.

They always seem so Creepishly accurate.

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