My husband's ex comes to pick up the kids and when she does she goes and runs around on our property and plays with the kids instead of doing it at her house. Both of us are not at home, she picks up the kids and they told us they were goofing off with their mom in the backyard. This has happened on several occasions. Then a few months back she used our hose to wash something off of her car. I just want to make sure she is not coming in the house when we are not home.

Okay...my husband has custody of his teenage boys and last night they were with their BM and he calls them every time they are with her so last night he called them on their cell phones to say goodnight....then BM calls back about 10 minutes later and asks how to spell a word because they are finishing homework at 10:30 at night...he told her how to spell it and he was nice on the phone and also said it's pretty late for them to still be doing homework and then he hung up..then 5 minutes later she calls freaking out on the phone that we need to get along and going into about she did this an