And it begins....I'm sensing SD will nope out of here soon
DH had his conversation about school/grades with SD.
The Highlights from Wednesday's conversation..as I got from DH.
1. This year is HARRRDDDERRRR. DH told her yes...its harder its called your a Junior and it gets harder as you go.
2. Its just one class I'm failing. DH..nope its 3 so that leads me to think its something else outside of school affecting your grades.
3. I don't want to take my ADD meds, they make me feel funny. DH...ok yes we discuessed that at the Dr's. He gave you a new prescription that you haven't tried. Also, do you want to feel a bit funny for a little while and do well or not feel funny and be failing. Its your choice.
4. Why can't I see my boyfriend during the week.....waaaaaaaaaaaahhaaaaa. DH because its obvious you need more time to study since your not on your meds and your grades have plumented.
Fast forward to today..she has a test in one of the classess she is failing in. Dh went in numerous times last night to get her to study.
DH gets a text from SD...and verbatim
SD "I'm having a really long panic attack and idk why but mom chose to pick me up."
Dh's response... "Well luv u hope you feel better, are you getting the hamster"
SD..."luv u too, No I'm going home"
People of steptalk this is how it started with GWR....he would have a test or something not study and then suddently "be sick". Beaver would pick him up and be all "oh you poor baby....I'm so SORRRRYYYYYYY that <insert DH's name> made you go to school. (side note..Beaver will not refer to DH as their Dad and makes them call him by his first name when they are with her) I don't buy the IDK mom chose to pick me up ...more like SD asked and Beaver readily agreed.
I predict by February SD will not want to come here because she will figure out Beaver will let her come home and not require any type of effort in school. DH is honestly tired of fighting this fight with his kids. At every turn Beaver counters him and I do understand it. DH is weary and is ready to drop the rope.
Also...WTH...now we have this stupid hamster here. I "suggested" to DH that we drop that sucker off at Beaver's later today. He agreed either tonight or tomorrow morning.