YO BEAVER DH IS NOT MARRIED TO YOU....
Newflash there Beaver..you have been divorced for over 15 years. DH is not your lacky....
As we know..DH was laid off in January. He has a new job but he can't just take off when he wants, even though he works from home. When SD got her job DH told her..look..I can make arrangments to get to work on my weeks...but your mom is going to have to take you on her weeks. Ah...yes...apparently Beaver took that as....oh DH since he at home can take you. DH has done his best to take SD to work on Beaver's weeks but with this new job that isn't possible. SD told Beaver she needs to take her. Apparenlty Beaver is throwing a Beaver fit over this and keeps telling SD that DH needs to take her.
Well newflash there Beaver..DH isn't your spouse and NO he doesn't have to take her during your weeks. Don't even get me started on Beaver expecting DH to pay for SD's lunch account on her weeks. DH put a stop to that and today SD couldn't eat lunch...no money.
12 more f*cking months......
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YAY!!!!
You are much closer than we are...by 2 months.
But thats hard - for Sd and you guys.
Starving? Ha!
Is there a reason why SD is incapable of packing a lunch in the morning? Neither I nor my children ever ate a paid-for meal at school. If Beaver is so concerned, perhaps she could prepare a lunch for her starving daughter. The kid ‘couldn’t eat lunch’? Oh, puhleese!
That would involve beaver having to do work and make an effort
Sad but tough love here in sd having no lunch is gonna hopefully do one of 2 things: she tells off beaver and beaver packs a lunch or pays the lunch acct or sd makes her own lunch.
no doubt beaver will play victim claiming the reason why she has no lunch is because daddy is so horrible
Oh SD could pack a lunch ...
SD was at our house in the morning since she was here for Easter. We have plenty of food..but that would require planning and execution. SD does neither...so she just "ass"umes there is money on her account. DH told her a few months ago..look..I pay for you to eat when you are with me...your mother needs to put money on your account for her time. And...here we are..SD's lunch account is empty because Beaver doesn't think she needs to pay any money towards SD...after all the child support is to support Beaver in the style to which she has become accustomed to.
Yes as we can all attest to, cs is not for the basic needs and
Necessities of the child but for biomum/exwife to live off of because hubby owes her for life.
so sd through her laziness is gonna have to fast. Tell her she's basically almost experiencing ramadhan when muslims fast from sunrise to sunset. She'll survive and when she gets hungry enough, she'll be forced to pack her own stuff.
my kids have been pros at getting food from the pantry and fridge. Before school they get a pack of snacks. If 5 & 7 yr olds can do this, so too can sd
Oh I feel 0 remorse for SD
like....not my fault your mom can't put money on your account and not my fault you can't think ahead. I mean I took care of lunches for the kids while they were in elementary school. After that...well its up to the kids to either
A. tell me they needed money on their account
B. pack a lunch.
C. go hungry if they couldn't do either above.
Wow, that must be so hard for
Wow, that must be so hard for her to have to do her share of the parenting on her time now! I hope DH doesn't try to go out of his way to still do it because Beaver refuses. She needs to step up. I forget why SD doesn't drive, but maybe that's the needed option.
SD doesn't drive because
She is "scared". Sigh..she will not even try to drive and at this point..I'm like..well I hope Beaver can take you...or I guess you don't get to work. I told DH..part of this is on SD..she won't learn to drive and doesn't make arrangments to get places other than ask you to be her personal Uber.
Right on, Yesterdays!
Right on, Yesterdays! That type of pettiness is exactly what Beaver would grasp, since small-mindedness is where she's at. Halo, are you hearing us? Go get the bitch!
Yup, this old gal is salty today! Heh, heh.
I wish..my filter is about gone
since I'm way way over having this shiznit in my life.
Wow. The audacity to think
Wow. The audacity to think that DH can just stop working to play chauffeur for a teen's job. That isn't how any thing works in real life! Especially in divorced home- each parent has responsibility on their time, it isn't complicated!
EXACTLY....
why is it DH can just drop his job and everything to cart SD around, but Beaver can't. I call BS....and your time your problem, you dumb orange tooth rodent.
At one point she had the audacity to ask SD why I couldn't take her to work. SD asked DH that..and I thought DH's head was going to spin off his head. In a very loud voice he told SD....she was not my responsibity and that while I may help at times...no way was he going to ask me to do this on the regular. He then told SD...remember your mom is always whining about how Halo is nothing to you. Well that includes NOT driving you anywhere for YOUR MOTHER'S convienance.
It goes quick.
Years of SKid and X drama, then one day you wake up and ... poof. No more CO.
If the CO is used to beat the X and the SKids into clarity for the entire term of the CO, it is much easier to turn it all off one minute after the SKid ages out from under the CO.
In our case the SKid was not the problem. Though there were still some SpermClan emotional hooks in him for a while after he aged out from under the CO,no longer was antying to do with them assiciated with us.
He could have gone to see them anytime he wanted. But there was no way they would have paid for it. SS did not have a job.
Even after he joined the USAF they would not reach out except to try to guilt him into repaying the CS they had paid for 16+ years and to try to guilt them into visiting them on his dime. He never went. They gave him crap for visiting us and not them. He informed them that we do not want anthing from him and we are the ones that pay for the plane tickets.
All SKid all the time, all CO all the time, all blended family oppostion all the time. Then one morning, it is any of things only if we tolerate it.
Tick the days off on a calendar posted on the wall. A big X crossing off each day.
When you cross off the last day and have the next wake up, start celebrating!!!!!!
On that day and every future day the message to the SKid should be "You are an adult now. Your choices are your own and we will not tolerate anything but respectful behavior from you. If you choose to behave otherwise, leave and do not come back until you behave as an adult instead of one of your mother's toxic minions."
Lunches --- When we were
Lunches --- When we were first married DH1's brother and wife had nine kids, six in school. We were at their home one day and stayed through supper. After supper the table was cleared, and out came sandwich fixings. Each child made their own sandwich, the younger under the supervision of the older. My SIL said her rule was that if you were old enough for full time school (first grade as this was years ago), you were old enough to make your own sandwich.
By that standard SDis way behind.
Your XSIL is a genious
Make your lunch... or go hungry until dinner.
I love it!!!!