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I thought I would update this blog, because what I am going through since my last entry is unbelievable. This last year my stepdaughter and I have become very close. We even tell each other we love one another. It's all related to her boyfriend going to jail and her meeting one of the nicest guys I have ever met. She has turned into completely different person this past year. We talk all of the time about anything without getting mad at each other. It's pretty amazing.

Its going as smooth as mud....

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I have posted some issues I have had with my stepdaughter & her mother (my wife), but I have disengaged as much as I possibly can, but my wife is making it very difficult. Her daughter has her brainwashed along with the rest of their family. The boyfriend is back living with her & all I hear from the wife is how well they are doing. Well first things first, he has a trial date coming up for the domestic problems he has created & he is using my SD as a sugar momma. So I am sure he does not want to screw that up because he has no where to go.

Why did I know this was coming???

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I am having issues with my wife & SD19. SD19 is living with her boyfriend & their child (he has 2 other kids that he cant even visit). They have had problems off & on for 4 years, physical abuse, mental abuse etc. It all came to a head about a month ago. SD19 calls her mom & says she is calling the cops that the boyfriend is pulling her hair & forcing her down on the ground until she listens. The cops arrest him & he is in jail. My wife says finally maybe he will leave & go back where he came from.

Im going to blow a gasket

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I have been having issues for a couple of years with my stepdaughter/blended family.My girlfriend & SD live full time with me in my previous marriage's house.My SD is 16,I have two sons from a previous marriage 18 & 11.I have joint custody with the x-wife,we swap every Saturday afternoon.The problem I have been having is the SD is an extremely spoiled girl from her BD,whatever she wants she gets.She sees him a couple times a week for a couple of hours at a time.He lives only 50 miles away & he works in the same city SD goes to school.My two kids get along with her somewhat,but I