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O/T How do I get him out of my house? CON'T

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He is gone. I came home from work to beer cans. Thankfully he left quietly and with no drama. He probably doesn't even remember anything. We had an agreement made while he was in rehab that if he started drinking he couldn't be in my house. The drunk dumbass left a beer can in the trashcan next to the bed! I found more after I started looking.

My house is peaceful again. I was able to contact his dad to come and pick him up. Drunk DH was planning on just being homeless. His dad's house isn't where he should be but it's better than the streets. I wish him luck.

O/T How do I get him out of my house?

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DH has been so well with the alcohol. No relapses. Going to AA meetings. But there have been a few times when I just didn't feel everything was on the up and up. He suffers from depression and anxiety. I was correct in my gut feeling. He's been abusing his anxiety meds because they make him so mellow. Two nights ago I had to endure a convoluted discussion about land mines and purple balloons so that pretty much sealed it for me.

Murder Miners

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Does anyone else out there know about the game Murder Miners? Apparently BM lets SS8 play this game which is a cross between Halo and Minecraft. I checked it out and given SS8's behavior as of late and his exposure to games rated M for Mature at the age of 4 I personally wouldn't let him play it. I just wondered what other people's thoughts are. Thanks!

BM YOU GET DUMBER BY THE MINUTE!

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So, it's DH's Friday to get SS8. He usually does this around 4 PM. I was going to pick SS8 up for him after work (at 4 PM) because DH was changing the brakes on my car. DH gets a call from BM at 10 til 4 asking if DH is going to be at her house soon. Apparently she decided she was sick enough to go to the doctor but didn't make any arrangements for someone to be at her house to get SS8 off the bus. He gets home at 3 PM when he rides the bus. What a dipshit! She called DH about it at the same time the school called him wondering what the hell they should do??!!

What to do??

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DH hasn't been to an AA meeting in 3 or 4 days. Starting to do that lay around the house all day thing again. Last night, although I'm not an alcoholic, I went to the meeting. It did provide me comfort. He slept on the couch which didn't bother me in the least. I didn't say a word to him after I got home and don't plan to any time soon. This behavior scares the crap out of me.

And Again! But this time punishment is worse!

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SS7 threw another royal fit in school yesterday over Reading and Recess! Yes, I said recess. He said it was too loud at recess and he didn't like his new reading group. I told him TOUGH LUCK! And this was after his teacher took the time to buy a sketch book for him to draw in between assignments. Drawing is SS7's outlet.

And he does it again!

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SS7's punishment for getting in trouble at school was to write apology letters and sentences. He did them with little fuss. Gets a talk about how even if he doesn't like something the teacher tells him he still has to do it.

Later (as 30 minutes ago) I told him to go to bed. I hear him squirming around but give it 10 minutes to give him a chance to settle down. Not happening. I went to check and there he is after the punishment and talk playing with his stuffed animals with the lights on!!!!

Does anyone else get blamed for this?

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It is my general opinion that DH and BM are fairly crappy parents. Yes, they were young when they had SS7 but the kid is going to be 8 soon and any normal person would have gotten a clue by now, I would think.

SS7 has declared on many occasions that he wants to kill himself, or nobody likes him, or he's stupid. He's anything but stupid. He has been to counseling, had ADHD testing, autism testing, and now more counseling. He doesn't have anything wrong with him as far as ADHD (he's borderline for ADD) and autism.

Meeting at the school

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So DH scheduled a meeting for today with SS7's teacher, principal, and guidance counselor. He wanted to know what has actually been happening this week and what led up to SS7's meltdown that resulted in suspension. BM has a history of not relaying all information, at times no information, or giving her "version" of events. DH wanted to go to the source so he would get the truth.

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