This is just a general "I'm worn out" kinda post but also posting because I'm thinking of throwing in the towel on the marriage, SS7, the drama, etc. I miss my drama free quiet life that I used to have.

My DH is a loving man. A very selfish, emotionally crippled, and abused as a child man. He has grown by leaps and bounds in the last few years but when does a person say enough. I can't take your slow progress anymore. I'm tired of leading, guiding, and helping you and SS7.

Today SS7 was talking about cars. He asked what kind of car I have. What make. Then he said "Yeah, I knew it was a Chevy. I told BM that your new car is as fast as a cheetah!" LOL That explains a lot. Probably pissed her off royal because she has a hunk of junk car. My car is a new USED car but I also kept my old vehicle because it doesn't have any trade-in value (old model, high miles, but still a good vehicle) and my son will be driving next year. When I bought the new USED car about a week later BM started whining about taking DH to court for more child support.

It's only day one of 50/50 with SS 7 and I'm about ready to pull my hair out! This child has no manners and I keep getting jumped by DH for expected decent behavior in my home. DH got onto me for saying that SS 7 was getting lazy in cleaning his room. I didn't say he was lazy just that he was slacking off because nobody was keeping him on task. So I get a backlighting but he then turns around and says to his son "Go ducking clean your room. " WTF?