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Suspended at the age of 7!

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Submitted by Harleygurl on Thu, 02/20/2014 - 9:32am

SS7 had a huge meltdown at school yesterday. They had to clear the rest of the kids out of the room. He received in-school suspension He has told school administrators that on Monday on the way to school DH screamed, cussed and beat him on the way to school. None of which is true. But if BM tells you that if you don't want to be at dad's you can call or come home whenever you want I guess it's ok to try to play that card wherever, including school.

Calm before the storm

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Submitted by Harleygurl on Tue, 02/11/2014 - 7:49am

Yesterday BM told DH that he couldn't see SS7 because our home is not deemed unsafe because DH voluntarily went to rehab. She lied and told him that I told her this. Not! DH was more than furious because she thinks she's the almighty decision maker and she is seriously PASing SS7. I convinced DH to back down for NOW. We already know that the police in the town where BM lives won't get involved because DH has called them before for assistance when she has refused to even answer the door or let SS7 come out.

Custody Arrangements in Ohio

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Submitted by Harleygurl on Mon, 02/10/2014 - 12:19pm

Does anyone out there know the general court consensus on changing custody arrangements in the state of OH because one parent voluntarily went to rehab?

My husband voluntarily went to rehab for drinking and completed the program. He has never been in trouble with the law due to drinking. He was released this Saturday and has already been to 3 AA meetings. He's taking this very seriously and looking at it as a second chance on life.

On a happier note

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Submitted by Harleygurl on Mon, 01/20/2014 - 9:09am

My BS21 called Sat night and said he wanted to come home for a few days! I went and picked him up and it's been so wonderful having both of my sons here without DH or SS7 ruining something. Feels like the old days. I kinda wish it could stay just the three of us.

Irritated

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Submitted by Harleygurl on Tue, 01/14/2014 - 6:15pm

BM sent me a text, not DH, asking why SS7's new glasses and exam weren't covered by my insurance. That's because you were impatient again and didn't take the time to look in the plan booklet (of which I have provided the website many times and it is on the back of the fucking insurance card I gave you) and you went to the closest eye doctor to your house to minimize your time away from the TV as much as possible. I'm just ranting here. It's been one thing after another since last Thursday and I desperately need a break from this step mom bullshit. That is all. Thank you!

Kids sharing a bedroom

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Submitted by Harleygurl on Mon, 12/23/2013 - 9:39am

Just taking a poll here but really want to know what everyone thinks. The situation is this: the home SS7 lives in with his BM only has 3 bedrooms. BM, her husband, and youngest (2) sleep in one room, her daughter (4) sleeps in another, and SS7 sleeps in the third. BM's idea is to put all three kids in ONE bedroom and have the other bedroom (daughter's current room) be the playroom. Now keep in mind that they have a living room area and another room at the back of their house where the children could play. What do you all think about this idea?

Release date for DH

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Submitted by Harleygurl on Mon, 12/23/2013 - 6:46am

Well DH will be released the day after Christmas which means I have to explain him missing Christmas with SS7 to BM. This ought to be joy and heaven on Earth! NOT! I texted BM on Saturday to tell her that DH would miss SS7's cub scout Christmas party and she was quite the pill. Wanted me to personally deliver his uniform to her at a specific time. Sorry BM! I wasn't home and I DON'T jump when you say how high. AND she called DH's grandmother and got her all riled up and worried resulting in more damage control for me to handle.

And I need advice please!

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Submitted by Harleygurl on Thu, 12/19/2013 - 8:36am

Some of the recent events have a cause, reason, etc. now. My DH admitted yesterday that he has a worse drinking problem than I even knew about. He is on his way to rehab as I type this. Anyone have any advice on how to deal with this? Any advice on how to handle others asking questions, because it is Christmas next week and he probably won't be home? I will have to deal with BM and frankly I don't want to tell her anything. But I know she is going to poke and prod. Thanks in advance!

I think I'm done

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Submitted by Harleygurl on Tue, 12/17/2013 - 12:56pm

I went home for lunch, which I frequently do to save money, and DH is laying on the couch watching TV for the second day in a row. Now while I acknowledge that it isn't his fault that he wasn't working (he works a job that depends on the weather) I was soooooo angry that he wasn't doing anything!! I blew up and screamed like a crazy shrew. I told him I was done being the giver and cleaning up a grown man's messes. I told him to leave. Does anyone have any advice about staying positive with a negative/defeatist person constantly giving up before they even try?

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