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SS15 is starting to disappoint-- update

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Submitted by Helena.Handbasket on Mon, 10/06/2014 - 10:03am

Update to http://www.steptalk.org/node/199529

SO and I talked about it. We are going to have a sit down with BM and her husband. We don't think SS will willingly come live with his dad since we have given him the option numerous times. Whatever happens will pretty much be at the hands of BM. We love SS but sadly my SO Has lost trust and after SDs history of lies and disappointment, SO won't put himself out there again.

It's really bad. Asking for feedback.

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Submitted by Helena.Handbasket on Sun, 10/05/2014 - 9:07am

We thought we had nothing to worry about with SS15. He just found out he's engaging in illegal drug activity. BM doesn't know yet, we are going to tell her.
Part if me says let's just blow it all open and go to court and take him. Another says it's a huge risk because he may fight us and rebel anyway.

He was such a good kid. Talks about college worries about grades. I have no idea what happened that he is doing all these bad things now. Lying to his mom and dad.

This is going to bite SO in the ass. Modifying CS.

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Submitted by Helena.Handbasket on Sun, 08/03/2014 - 4:15pm

After not saying more about SD18 and college, SO admitted something to me.

He is ok with SD skipping a semester so that he can go file for modified CS and then only need to pay out to BM for SS15.

I told him I think it's a bad idea because CS hasn't been modified since they first divorced and his salary changed. I think she could get the sane if not more just for one child.

Maybe it's just an excuse for his lazy parenting.

Will SD actually go to college??? Stay tuned

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Submitted by Helena.Handbasket on Mon, 06/09/2014 - 2:05pm

what SO says and what gets done have always been two different things.
http://www.steptalk.org/node/188980#comment-1319854

My last post outlined his plan. However, since going to graduation. NOTHING has happened. Do you know these people still haven't gotten her financial aid forms in. She still has no college applications in.

SO is going to live with SD (his daughter)??

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Submitted by Helena.Handbasket on Mon, 06/02/2014 - 11:46am

After SD18s graduation, SO and I got to talking about what SD18 will be doing. I have stayed out of all of this so far. Everything I know is only coming from SO, so i have to take all the info with a grain of salt. Supposedly, BM wants SD to move out (no idea if this is really true since child support will be cut in half if SD leaves).

As a reminder, SO and I live 4 hours apart since we are both stuck in our jobs right now.

SD18 is graduating

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Submitted by Helena.Handbasket on Thu, 05/29/2014 - 9:49pm

Well ladies, I'm going to be driving an hour one way with a one year old in order to go to SDs graduation.
Her stepbrother is also graduating. SO seems to have no clue what is going on tomorrow I even asked if they are having some sort of event afterwards. My guess is he knows and doesn't want to deal. BM and her husband must have something going on, two of the kids in their house are graduating.

No doubt it will be a boring ceremony and I will be attending to a child who will be up passed bedtime. heading straight home as soon as possible.
Lets get this over with.

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