I am jumping on here fast. It seems I never have time to get on here anymore.

SO works out of state 4 days a week. Home 3. His skids decided they wanted to come up here even with him gone. SO knows I have too much going on with baby and work.

Anyone here have their own daycare? I'm considering starting my own. I've been gathering information about my states regulations. I'd also like to hear your experiences. My goal is an in home set up with 2 assistants.

SO has been telling SD17 and SS14, for a year, that we are going to FL for vacation. He still hasn't told them we aren't going.

Why you ask? He didn't plan it. Then when it comes down to the wire, he doesn't' want to spend the money it would take to have 5 people go. Now, I knew this was coming, but no one else seemed to. He even commented that its cheaper when its just me and him (even with a baby now).

I haven't said a word. One annoyance is him saying "i have to break my kids hearts telling them we aren;t going". Don't talk like that when you did it.

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Thank you all for your responses.

I want to say first of all I wish I could be on here more. Baby boy is keeping me so busy and sleep deprived.

Second, I also want to say that even though I remain disengaged from any issues with SD, I am interacting and involved with SS13. He is an amazing skid, responsible and hard working. Does chores and helps me with the baby.