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"Is that Normal, Dad?"

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Adult SKs came for an impromptu overnight visit with kids and dogs last weekend. We went way over the top making them all feel comfortable and didn't get a thank you, so we decided we will not be doing that again (gave up OUR bed for the youngest who just had a baby). Next time, they know our bedroom situation, if they want to stay, here's the air mattress! My husband actually is the one who said that to me, by the way, after they left. His youngest seemed to have some kind of chip on her shoulder!! Maybe it's because she's a new mom or who knows.

When they hurt my man....

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It's hard watching my husband hurt from the actions of his own kids (SD27, SD22). He has been divorced over 10 years, I have been in the picture for the last 3 1/2. I know the stories his ex told everyone because I caught wind of a lot of them. She painted him to be a total asshole to all who would listen. He admits he was bitter and angry towards the end of their marriage. Sometimes a sucky marriage does that to a person. He suggested counseling for them, she refused and ran to the arms of his best friend instead.