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BM is like Herpes...she will never stop fucking up my life.
About a month ago..I may have blogged...SD twisted her ankle. SD was with BM so BM offered to take her to doc. We go to a place that is open on weekends...this was a Sunday. DSO told BM to take her there bc the copay was cheaper and they had her ins info on file. NOPE, BM takes her to ER, that doesn't have her info on file bc we go to the freaking clinic.
This happened twice more in the past 3 weeks. DSO is getting bills in the mail every other day now that has this on the envelope.
From half disengagement to full on now.
In case anyone looks, I was Bearcub25 until recently...old blogs are still there.\
Last fall, after 1st report cards came out, I got SD a cell phone, 7th grade, talk/text only. It was on my plan and DSO paid..so roughly $15/month. This allowed me to drop our Comcast phone at 35/month. I did it bc she was doing well, she did need one. I didn't add the data plan but planned to upgrade if she was responsible with this phone.
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No BM, you are not putting me in that position.
DSO and I are at work. SD is with BM. SD has final tourney softball game tonite and then leave for the beach on Monday.
I get a txt convo from SD:
SD-my chest hurts when I breathe in and we are at ER with some random friend of BMs, can I get checked.
Me-have to ask Dad, not my decision.
SD-he hasn't txted back. (DSO isn't even supposed to have his phone at work but can sneak txts).
Me-when did you start hurting.
SD-A WEEK AGO.
Me-if he doesn't answer, Mom will have to use her best judgement...that is an oxymoron if I ever said one.
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I'm so freaking excited...vacation and no skids.
DSO and I are on vacation next week...no trip though. SD is going on vacation with the twins family.
A WHOLE WEEK WITH NO KIDS.
This hasn't happened for 4 long years since BM lost custody of the skids. It will be so nice to take off on the bike when we want, not have to run to BMs town 15 times. We really deserve this and I sure as hell will appreciate it.
I really love the twins family...sad SDs own Mother doesn't spend that amount of time with her own kid.
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Sad when you have to ask BM to watch her own kid.
Technically, BM should have SD all summer. With softball going on, we have kept SD and SD has stayed with the twins when we had to work.
BM can't be bothered with extracurr sports...or with anything really. Practice tonite and we both work tomorrow so SD has been trying to get ahold of BM all day to see if she can go to BMs tonite.
I didn't know when my kids were young that I could just pawn them off on someone else to raise and support.
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New name
Decided to switch it up and changed my user name.
Formerly Bearcub.
And yes it has gotten better or I just give less of a fuck now....either one.
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