Well it looks like my disengaging has to stop for awhile with SS13. It served it's purpose and gave me back my sanity after SD15 started being such a problem. But, now with the CO modification still in play for SS13, I need to step up a little however, it will be on my terms. I am going tonight to the Open House. I haven't gone since our kids were in the same school and even then it was for my son. But, BM and her DH will be there I am sure. DH wants me there since she does this bringing the SDad as a United Front.

Below is an excerpt from a 4 page email to my SIL from the BM after our lawyer called her and told her we would be going for custody of both kids. Long story short...SD15 sued us to live with BM in April 2010. She left. Here is her version of what took place and led her to let SD do this. If you believe everything she has written I make Joan Crawford look like MOTY. Everything here is exagerated and taken out of context. I can't attach the whole email, because it is too long and disupting it all would take the entire day.

Well got the call from SS13 that he doesn't feel well. Told him I would be right there. Ha Ha....DH had to put me back on the form at school last week because BM removed me at the open house...These kids, since I have been in there life, have called me when they are in the nurses office. Not DH and Not BM. Me...I work from home and can get to them right away. Yet she wants me off the emergency list at school. Really, how did that work for you?

I just wanted to give an update of this horrible saga of us suing for full custody now of both kids. If you have been following along, you remember that SIL and BIL irritated me over a trip to CA and NM for SD15. Well now, apparently, SD15 told the SIL about Drinking at 14, beating mailboxes with a bat and other stuff. Thought it was funny. Fast forward and SIL tells DH and that is what made him decide to pursue SD15 along with SS13. I knew there had to be something else. Well, fast forward and an email is sent to SIL from BM.