I thought my son was kidding when he mentioned that SD15 was now a bleach blonde. I finally saw it on Facebook this morning and can not believe BM let her do this and probably paid for it. Holy Cow....She has very dark brown beautiful hair. At least she did. What is next that BM is going to let her do. BM is a brunetter that is very blonde, but even she is not this bleach blonde. BM has had the breast augmentation so I am starting to wonder if that is next. I know SD wants tattoos and piercing. They already did the cartilidge at the top of the ear for her 15th birthday.

If you haven't seen the blog on the wedding and inviting a SD you are missing a great read. The OP is what makes us stepmoms look so bad to the outside world. Her views on whether a child of a previous relationship should be a priority for the next marriage, make us all look bad. Stuff like this makes us have to fight a pre-conceived notion about us as Stepmoms, before we even walk in the door.

Well he signed the paper in front of a notary public yesterday. BM will be served sometime in the next couple of weeks. DH asked him if he was sure he wanted this. He looked at us like maybe we had changed our mind. Told him we didn't and we still wanted him with us, if that is what he wanted. He does. Told us later he had a bad week again at BM's. I asked him did he want to talk about and he said no, he didn't like to talk about his problems. They were his. Just breaks my heart when he talks like this.

Here is my latest BM drama. God I hate that woman. Last week we got a call after what was one of the busiest weekends of my life. My son had his Eagle ceremony attended by 65 people from all over. Very big deal. The next morning he left for a job for the summer only to come home less than 24 hours every week.