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drama is brewing … SD weekend !

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I have been posting a lot lately because I have no where else to vent but of course SD is coming this weekend . You know she was already asking on Wednesday. But DH forgot he had a job already schedule tomorrow night in which he will be gone from 8 to 12 am most likely . He scheduled the job because he didn't know if he would have SD ( she has not come in months ) and he needed the money to recoop from Christmas. So he told BM he could meet her tomorrow half way ( 2.5 hour drive ) at noon. But I am thinking I'm excuse me .. who the hell is SD suppose to be with ?

A pretty decent Christmas at last

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To my surprise it was a nice Christmas, other then the fact that my mom went out of the country and I didn't really see my sisters . But as far as SD 14 goes it was decent . BM actually spent Christmas with SD this year and didn't do her usually dumping SD off for 2 weeks. It's probably because both DH and I called her out on it so much earlier this year, maybe it clicked that SD would actually like to spend x mas with her mom. So we got SD Christmas Eve around 6 and went to SIL house where everyone would be .

Family pictures and x mas gifts

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So around my house I have mostly pictures of my kiddos, as I am in charge of the decor in the house . We do have maybe 1 or 2 pictures of SD but for the most part she is hardly ever around. Sd has skipped out on family photos for 3 years now and my DH is a photographer so when we have all the kids BS12, DS7, DD4, DD1 ( SD skips out on her weekend) sometimes we will go to a park so DH can take photos of the kids. Some photos I had printed, framed and give to MiL ( MiL only had old baby photos of SD up) these were like 4X6 photos she has big photos up of SD.

There’s hope yet!!!it’s a Christmas miracle!

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Well maybe I'm jumping the gun a bit.... Christmas weekend is around the corner BUT after my talk with DH Sunday he has stoped chasing SD and ignoring BMs text even though she is trying so hard to be relevant ( it's her annual dumping of SD holiday) i was having a conversation with DH Sunday about my moms boyfriends daughter who is the very definition of a 30 year old Mini wife !!! I mean the women is bordline psycho gf with her dad and it's gross! It just so happens that everything my

Trying to keep the peace

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On Wednesday DH and I had a huge blow out fight about the ass kissing he has been doing with SD14. He continues to fed into her chasing game of daily phone called, daily text messages complete with baby talk and kiss emojis ... after our arguement he finally "saw" what I was saying , he agreed ge needed to let SD do the reaching out as well and said he would have a talk with her . Well per usual SD has been avoiding his phone calls, she always has a excuse for it . And yet DH is still there chasing her and it's pissing me off.

DH regression with only a few words

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All  SD14 had to do to trigger the regression of DH was tell BM "I'm sad, I miss my dad" . This then trigger a call from BM to DH and BM asked "are you not contacting SD, she is sad because of you." And the regression starts and I am literally sick because of it! DH was and always is the one who initiates phone calls and text messages, he always ask for SD in his weekends . SD didn't have to do anything but say those words and DH is right back to the baby talk, kissy face and heart emojis, calling daily and it's beyond annoying .

New account, same issues

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So I created a new account because I realized my user name was too obvious lol. So if you guys remember me I'm the one with the PAS BM, SD who is 14 that has been not coming when it's DH weekends to have her. Also BM moved about 3 hours away and now "can't see at night " and a lot of times she has many excuses for not being about to meet DH for his weekends . Well last night BM sends DH a texted saying "I REALLY need to talk to you about SD" DH calls her and appearantly SD 14 expressed to BM that she was "sad" and supposedly the reason is because she misses her Dad... oh give me a break!

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