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Liar, Liar

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Submitted by Kenna on Tue, 04/03/2012 - 8:14am

SS16 spent the weekend with BM and yesterday SO gets a call saying that BM is missing $100. SS16 calls his dad between school and track practice and says he has a message from his mom accusing him of stealing the money and he whines to his dad that he didn't do it.

I suggested to SO that he go ahead and search SS16s room before he gets home, SO says "If he took it you know he would have taken it to school and gone and bought lunch today" (He is on a diet and we don't give him money to leave campus for lunch he has to eat at the school)

Can't Win

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Submitted by Kenna on Sat, 03/31/2012 - 11:39am

I am one day away from celebrating SD19 moving out and into her own place!!! It is all I can do to keep from doing cartwheels through the house all week!

Last night my boyfriend's loser brother comes over and tells us that he will need to stay here now that we have an extra room. I said NOPE we don't have an extra room. His reply was YES you do. My boyfriend giggled at his brother.

When the brother left, I said he is NOT staying here and I am not kidding. I gave my boyfriend a list as long as my arm with rational reasons why he couldn't stay.

Found drug paraphernalia

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Submitted by Kenna on Wed, 03/28/2012 - 1:09pm

Today when I took SS16's laundry out of the dryer (so I could use the dryer) I found paraphernalia. Idiot! Ridiculous to have it, even more ridiculous to leave it around the house! Anyway...

I calmly called my boyfriend to tell him to come home and see what I found. My first reaction was to have the sheriff's dept come over and 'scare' or ticket him. The boyfriend flipped out, he didn't want to involve the law WTF? This kid brings drugs into my house where we have other children living and he doesn't want his son to take responsibility YIKES!

Dropped off!

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Submitted by Kenna on Fri, 03/16/2012 - 5:29pm

I just dropped off SS16 at his BMs for the weekend (2 hours one way). I was absolutely dreading being in the car with just him after the week we have had. I resisted the urge to scold him when he first got in the car (he was touching the baby's toys and has bad personal hygiene). We ended up talking the entire trip, about cars, classes, war, books, the weather, everything. I enjoyed the trip, and it felt good not to spend the entire time angry or unhappy. I was proud of myself lol (still am!) I wish I could be like that more often.

All my fault

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Submitted by Kenna on Wed, 03/14/2012 - 5:49pm

Today my BF told me that I am the reason he doesn't talk to his kids as much as he should. (They live with us full time.) He claims that I get angry everytime he talks to them. I tried explaining to him that I DO get angry when he babies them immediately after disciplining them. It is a pattern his children (D19 and S16) have learned well. He doesn't spend anytime talking with them regularly then they misbehave (in BIG ways) and then they get daddy time, so when they need more daddy time they misbehave again. With the D19 it is about a 3 week cycle.

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