So I guess this probably makes me a bad person On some level ... but I have been with my SO for roughly 2 years. He is 13 years my senior and was married previously for 10 years (with her for 20 total). She is, to be blunt, an alcoholic, manipulative, unoriginal, demeaning, whore. She cheated on him for at least 8 out of the 20 years they had known each other, openly and blatantly in front of his friends and family. She would berate him and their children, get drunk EVERY time they went anywhere, and hang on whom ever was closest with a pen*s. She was an embarrassment.