I only ask because per previous conversations with BM, she said things were decentbetween us and I can call her for anything regarding SD. So, I did. I didn't understand a response to one of her text messages so I called her. She kept repeating the question over and over; I didn't get an answer out of her. A few days later, she called DH and said I was rude! WTF! and she only wants to deal with him (again) because I'm rude. I said hello, asked if she had a couple of minutes, and told her I called because DH was holding/busy with the baby.

I know we have this site as stepparents..anyone know of any bm sites and the issues they face? After a recent incident with bm....I really think she's jealous that I took the only thing she had on me...having a baby..before, she was the mother of his only child, and I took that away from her.

for being so stupid and knocking some woman up and having a kid with her? i know...u knew what u were getting yourself into, but maybe things weren't as bad until a certain part of your relaationship where you already invested yourself and theres no turning back? i guess this goes along with the resentment. things are fine when sd isnt here..but the anticipation of the next visitation wekend makes me sick.

Do you look at your SK as their individual? When you look at your stepkid, do you see a part of your SO AND BM?

I'm asking because my DH looks at SK as her own individual. We have our own child and I see our baby as a product of our love and take pride in seeing characteristics of me and DH in her...and I kind of look at SK like that, and it makes me sick..to know that she was a product of "something" and DH even proposed to BM (she declined) because she was pregnant.