I want to thank all of you for your words of encouragement!!! I had started to feel like maybe I was over reacting b/c of DH's attitude. I had even felt guilty about calling the FBI, thinking maybe I was just going to make a volatile situation even worse.

OK, as my other posts have stated, BM is being a crappy "mother" again. I called CPS this morning and reported how BM sees no problem letting her child stay with "Jill". On Thursday, she actually defended this woman's character in court!! She refused to get SS medical care on Thursday and Friday.

The next person who tells me "you knew what you were getting into" is going to get the nastiest soap I can find shoved in their mouth!

DH's family and ex are THE MOST DYSFUNCTIONAL group of people I have EVER met, and I've been a social worker for 5 years! You won't believe yesterday's turn of events with BM!

OK, yesterday I leave the doctor's office and drag myself to the drugstore. (I'm beginning to think the stress from DH and his husband is causing all of this!)

Life has been so crazy and hectic that I haven't even had time to log onto this site! SS (10.5) has become a total nightmare. He lies constantly and while I feel guilty, I've grown to absolutely HATE this child! He has accused me of hitting him -- I've never laid a finger on my DH's 3 children except to give them hugs and pat them on the back. This child is just an evil little mongrel! He accuses me of making fun of him. All of this started when at 10.5 he decided he wasn't going to wipe himself or wear underwear anymore. Ughhh! How gross can you get!