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Thank you dh for finally stepping up.

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I noticed that my ddstb12, had been looking somewhat withdrawn and depressed. I asked her what's going on. At first she kept saying nothing was wrong. But when I asked maybe if anything was deep down bothering her she told me that SD told dd11 that she was going to kill her. I told dh what ddstb12 told me. He asked SD about it, and she admitted it. She said that when her and dd11 were playing with makeup dd was putting her mascara on and it was goopy. That's why she said she was going to kill her. Dh told SD to throw away all her makeup...

BM can't seem to quit fattening SD up.

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When with us for a solid week, SD was able to lose 5 pounds (with little exercise). SD went back to BM for the weekend to go to a water park and nature preserve (so lots of movement and physical activity) and managed to gain every pound back. What the hell? Her pants we just bought that were fitting are now too tight. SD said she took her medicine the whole weekend. How do you gain 5 pounds in 2 days? I didn't know that was possible!

BM can't seem to quit fattening SD up.

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When with us for a solid week, SD was able to lose 5 pounds (with little exercise). SD went back to BM for the weekend to go to a water park and nature preserve (so lots of movement and physical activity) and managed to gain every pound back. What the hell? Her pants we just bought that were fitting are now too tight. SD said she took her medicine the whole weekend. How do you gain 5 pounds in 2 days? I didn't know that was possible!

SD and FB

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OK so I know that BM stalks my Facebook amy chance she gets wit SD getting a Facebook in a few months, it will make it all the time.

My rules will be:

I will get a separate FB amount from dh, don't care what he says.

Dds and I will not friend SD.

Dds and I will block SD.

Dh will not pay any pictures that include dds on his Facebook.

All pictures of dds from before will be removed. Anyone who tagged pictures of dds will need to be told to not tag dh in the pictures.

Oh my God I'm going to pull my hair out!

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So SD10 and dd10 went to my mom's yesterday, dd11 is at day camp. They took their electronics (which was a way that I figured SD could stay out of my mom's hair and from causing trouble with dd10. Well SD hides dds DS from her before it was time to go. hasn't admitted it yet but she say around watching my mom and dd look desperately for it. Then my mom told her to get up and look, that they weren't leaving until it was found. She went in the other room (that my dd didn't even go in) and found it in the first place she looks. Wow how did that happen?

BM is a great teacher

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BM has many flaws, but she's a great teacher. She teaches SD so many things. She tells SD how to do things and even takes the time to demonstrate to her how to do it. SD is showing signs of learning these things very clearly.

The problem is, these are things we don't want her to learn.

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