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Dh says he would adopt my kids, if it weren't for a few things...

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We were watching a movie last night after the kids were asleep and in bed. It had a man who ended up spring his step kid's.

Dh tells me that he would apt my kids if it weren't for a few things.

It potentially could lower SD's cold support. Not sure if this is true, but I thought that was sweet that he still wants to fully support SD financially (yes he had her 50/50 and still pays 500 a month to help support her) I don't know a child that costs $1000 a month to raise. You know since it's supposed to cover his "half" of SD, even though half the time she's with us.

In relation to a pay I read about father's day gifts, if you would hang them

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I often wondered the same thing... Dh had things that BM made with SD's foot prints on it that she painted and wrote the poems on. I hated that I felt that dh shouldn't be holding on to it displaying it on the dresser... it's so hard looking at it when I go to bed. It's so hard to get intimate with it right there looking at me... I felt bad about not wanting it.

I laughed so freaking loud at dh today, he liked a little perturbed...

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He went to my sister's house to help with computer stuff. Well her kids are rowdy (to say the least),and dh said he felt his head exploding. Don't blame him on that at all, I can only stand my sister's kids in small spurts. Dh told me "if that was SD, her ears would still be ringing"

I couldn't help but to laugh literally out loud. And he looked upset that I did, but come on dh!

I'm about to blow up on dh's ass tonight

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He had the nerve to yell at dds about their rooms (first thing in the morning while they are still rubbing the sleep or of their eyes) because their beds weren't made they each have a book on the floor and their clothes are on the floor.

They just woke up, so ya their beds weren't made. The books on their floor are the books they read last night and yes they left their clothes on the floor from yesterday when they changed into their pajamas.

DD10's birthday is coming up... dh pulled a stunt that has me fuming!

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OK, so dd's birthday is coming up. She's so excited, I have some really awesome things planned. Also, her birthday lands on a weekend, so extra plus! Well it happens to be during a time that we don't have sd (so triple plus for me). Well, apparently dh talked to dd and convinced her to have her party on the following weekend, a whole week later than her actually birthday. I wouldn't mind if it was just a day or two later, but we are talking about a whole week. I Haye how when sd is here she makes the whole world revolve around her.

That apology post really got stuck in my head today so here is a question.

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When children are apologizing, what is expected? If you can also put age reference that would be appreciated.

I'm trying to show dh that I'm not just making things up. He thinks it's too much to expect a sincere apology from an 11yo child.

Imo at 11 they should really have a decent understanding as to what an apology is.

Maybe not, maybe I'm wrong, but I'd like some feed back.

DH is sending SD10 to camp where I have already booked DD10 and DD11 to go (at the same time)

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They don't get along very well anymore. DD's get so tired of sd. Dh has major double standards. When sd does something wrong he will threaten to do X, but then never do it. DDs do something wrong and he grounds them (hasn't happened recently after I told him to quit disciplining my children). The DDs have seen this time and time again, and they feel it's not fair (which it's not, so I don't blame them).

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