I am a BM to a almost 17BS And I am at my whits end with this kid. An alien has taken over my big hearted, athletic, sweet, loving son and turned him into a lazy, defiant, non caring about anyone slug. Last week I laid down the law and told him he had to go stay at his dads. I cant stand watching him throw his life away to become a loser. He refuses to get up and go to school, He comes and goes at any hour he chooses, sleeps all day, I have dragged him outa bed and dropped him off at school only for him to go in one door and out another.

I cant make a decision about whether to assume the mortgage on my upsidedown house of which I only have about 60 days left to do, or to buy another house for me and my children.
BF has his house, and we have discussed sharing a home, but Wackjob has already convinced the sd's that Daddy is gonna give thier rooms away.... So hes like, "well then she would be right".
I dunno, I just dunno........

So BF who I dont get to spend near as much time with as I would like due to our conflicting work schedules asked me to come to his 15yo daughters soccer game this evening. I of course jumped on it to spend some time with him. We rode our bikes (Harleys) to the school watched the game and afterwards when he tried to talk to his daughter she said "shut up cant you see i am on the phone?" (i will get back to that in a moment)
Then we sat on our bikes because she didnt seem to have a ride and waited to make sure she got picked up. Eventually Wackjobs BF came and got her.

BF just called to tell me BM just texted him that she went to the school and did playground duty and "got alot of interesting information about what Lxxx's mom thinks" from my daughter6
My daughter and his go to the same school. One of his twins and my daughter are in the same 1st grade class.
I just posted earlier about an incident yesterday where BM was cruel to my daughter when picking up hers yesterday and I told my daughter to stay away from twins when BM was present. She said "why" I said because she was mean to you and I dont want you to get your feeling hurt again.