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Sheeeeeeee's back, or The nightmare that is continueing to be Steplife

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Submitted by Red_panda7 on Fri, 03/27/2015 - 3:41pm

Little miss SD13, decided she was going to "cleanse" the house... We have all been sick. They (SD13 and SS9) were sick at there BM's. My SO and myself plus SS15 and BS4 have all been sick. This is why she claims to be burning sage. Her brother (SS9) has Mf***ing asthma and I am still coughing so is her dad and my son. SO said it would be fine so I didn't argue, she then went into every and I do mean every room of the house. Including mine and SO's room. She says loud enough for everyone in the house to hear this room is the worst.

Go on, back to hell with you small Satan

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Submitted by Red_panda7 on Tue, 03/17/2015 - 9:04am

The two Skids SD13 and SS9 will be leaving today. They can't go fast enough. Even SO and SS15 said they couldn't wait till she left. All she does is start drama. SD was made to apologize for calling me a Bitch and BM was told to which I believe her reply was along the lines of good for SD. I am really trying not to just flat out hate her. I like the boys so why does SD have to be so irritating and rude and mean.

So am I just being petty?

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Submitted by Red_panda7 on Mon, 03/16/2015 - 8:58am

This weekend has been a dramatic improvement. SD has only picked up the phone twice to call her BM. Neither time to tattle. We all were at the park as a family for about two hours I stayed longer so they had family time. When we got back everyone had there own space. My SO worked on his homework in SD room partly for the quite (SS 9 and BS 4 playing upstairs other SS already done with his because he did it Friday when he got home as per house rules) partly to make sure SD did her homework. We all ate dinner together. SD had asked to cook and we let her make taco spaghetti.

Alright the foot is coming DOWN

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Submitted by Red_panda7 on Sat, 03/14/2015 - 7:40am

My SD13 will be home by the time I get off work. When I get home she will be experiancing a very new situation. Fliping grounded to her room. I have had enough. If she doesn't like it I'll call her mother and let her deal with my SO till her mom can drive the 3 hours back to get her. I will not tolerate her picking on SS9 or BS4 or even the 9 week old German Shepherd puppy. She'd best find a new outlet. I'm done with the hogwash she thinks she has every right to get away with.

Flipping done. Although any thoughts on what I should do if I call her BM and BM won't come get her?

This is long, sorta back storyish

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Submitted by Red_panda7 on Wed, 03/11/2015 - 12:02pm

OK I finally have a chance for some form of back story for myself. I have desided I like this site very much and everyone on it. This was exactly the stressreliver I was looking for.

I left a very emotionally abusive and sometimes fairly even physically abusive relationship. (The full blown divorce part still going because my ExH wants to fight about every little f*ing thing.) It's been really hard. I was too scared to leave till he left the state with our 3 year old at the time.

Step mom, step off a cliff more like

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Submitted by Red_panda7 on Sun, 03/08/2015 - 7:16am

Yesterday my SD flat out finally started talking to me the way she does when her dad's not home right in front of him. :jawdrop: he was like Excuse me she was all like you're excused he was absolutely shaking with frustration
She goes back before she's really able to be punished for anything and he won't spank her she's thirteen and her bio mom said it's the thirteen year olds perogotive to call me what ever she wants so no back up no support she says (bio mom) I'm "a blood sucking parasite" even though she never worked when they were together and still doesn't.