My Bio Son (19) is coming to visit from interstate and I haven't seen him for almost 6 months. I always get so excited to see him and so devistated every time he leaves to go home. When I divorced his Dad (5 yrs ago), he chose to stay interstate because he couldn't deal with leaving his friends and school. So any time I get to spend with him is precious. His sister (20) lives with me and my DH so she misses him terribly also - even after 5 years it does not get any easier for either of us.