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NEED TO VENT HERE BEFORE BAD THINGS HAPPEN

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I just need to get out my feelings on this site before I burst out at my family. My husband and I are going to be coaching my step-sons team and our daughters team, they are on the same team. However when his ex called today to see what time the game was Saturday he told her he would call her back to let her know and that he was the coach, and I am pissed that he did not say we are coaching the team, afterall I am the coach and I asked him to coach with me.

PLEASE READ AND ADVISE, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!!!!!!

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Well I have not been on in awhile, because things were going great. BM moved an hour away 2 times since we won placement in January 09. She moved in July of 09 and again in November of 09 and eventhough I think it sucks for my step son to move again and againg BM is only putting more nails in her cuffin. She swore to the court she was not going to move and that is why she should have placement because ss was going to head start where she lived, because she signed him up without telling Dad!!!

HELP, HELP, HELP!!!

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I need advice, same advice I usually need. We had to see BM today at SS soccer game and just on wed. she threatened to take DH back to court and now on Sat. she tries to be best buddies. DH has custody and she just moved again for the 7th time and has a new job again for the 5th time so I am not worried about court.

WELL I FREAKED AND CALLED BM!!!

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Well I have to say that BM does not do the dishes in the bathtub, because she does not have a bathtub. She has a stand up shower so BM does the dishes in the bathroom sink and washed SS with a wash cloth while he stands in the shower because he does not like water on his head. SO she gets water from the bathroom sink and cleans him with a wash cloth while standing in the shower.

BM DOING THE DISHES IN THE BATHTUB, I THINK I WIN!!!!

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My SS told me about his moms new apartment the other day when he was talking about his aunts new apartment. My SS told me his aunts new apartment is a castle, SS is 5, I am assuming that it is bigger than his moms new apartment. Then he told me that you have to put your head next to the door to talk on the phone or there is no service and that he lives in the basement with people who live upstairs.

OMG,OMG, OMG WHY DO I FEEL BETTER THAT BM AND I WERE ABLE TO TALK? IT ONLY TOOK 4 YEARS!!!

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I was at soccer and BM did not have money for pictures so she asked my DH if she could mail the money in and I said the form said money needed the same day of pictures. But I went and talked to the picture guy and he told me she could mail her money in just fill out a form today, since he was already getting pictures done because of DH and I.

I wonder how BM feels???, PLEASE RESPOND I NEED SOME ADVICE!!!

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Well I was able to see my SS practice soccer today because his soccer practice and my foster daughters practice was at the same time and the same field. I am wondering how BM felt at the practice I know she hates me and I do not like her either, but we have custody SS (5) and I wonder how she feels me being his mom 25 days out of the month cause she sees him 5 days out of the month. I guess I have to give her credit for coming to practice because since she moved to drive from work it is 40 min. to see him practice then an hour home for her because she chose to move an hour away.

HOW TO DEAL WITH SOCCER PRACTICE???

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I know this might seem stupid to some of you but my ss and my foster daughter have practice on the same night for soccer they are ss(5) fd(4) and i am having a very hard time dealing with the fact that BM will probably be at her sons soccer practice I am not sure because she is the BM that just moved an hour away but i assume she will be there because she loves any chance to talk to my DH and see him, she is still not over him and we are married.

VENT SESSION ABOUT BM!!!

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Well our BM brought our son home because she is the one who decided to move an hour away and then my SS told me that he had to help mommy move. Why in the fuc* did she not move last weekend which was the first of July when she did not have her 5 year old in the car riding an hour to the old house to move sh*t to the new house. Then she gets her and tells my DH that son had a good time with his friends, he has no friends at the new house she obviously just moved this weekend.

What is wrong with the world???

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BM called to let SS know that her sister had the baby and she is going to drive him an hour tom. to see the baby for an hour and then drive him home an hour because tom. she only gets her son for 3 hours on wed. and instead of waiting for the weekend, which is her weekend for him to see the baby, he is 5 and does not even like babies, she is going to drive for 2 out of her 3 hours with her son who she has not seen in 6 days.Plus she gets him thurs. nights during the summer on her weekends so he gets to drive another hour on thurs.

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