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Submitted by Rosedeer1 on Tue, 01/13/2009 - 7:44pm

First I want to start off by saying thank you sooo much you have saved my sanity. I did not respond to her because all of you are right, I think it pissed her off more, I checked her myspace page again today and it still says, My MOM taught me if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all, but now she added At least some moms taught their daughter's values. This I find funny because she is fighting over the computer having no idea if I check it or not.

TO RESPOND OR NOT TO RESPOND TO BM??

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Submitted by Rosedeer1 on Mon, 01/12/2009 - 7:21pm

So I have told you guys how I try to be nice to BM and that has not been working, tonight I said bye right to her face and she had no response, so I told her to have a good night. On her myspace account it says My MOM taught me if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all. So do I put some remark on my account for her to see or do I do nothing and not even let her know I saw her account she has no idea if I really check it, so do I put a dig in or be the bigger person and wait until after court on Friday, and pray we win, and that is all the satisfaction I will need??

FLEA BITE BM IS MOVING AGAIN??? WHAT DO YOU THINK???

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Submitted by Rosedeer1 on Sun, 01/11/2009 - 3:59pm

So we all know that she sucks at taking care of her son, but in court she said she was not moving again, and that she was buying the trailor she lives in now. Today on her myspace account it said,....is going furniture shopping for our new house!!!, so what do you think, this will be her 7th house move and if it is in a different district it will be my SS 10th daycare move this is why my DH took her to court for full custody, but we have court this Friday, how to prove she is moving before court.

TO BE OR NOT TO BE WITH BM????

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Submitted by Rosedeer1 on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 9:10am

So my New Years resolution was to try and reach out to BM, the lady who I had arrested 2 times because she threatened to kill me then broke an order of protection. She also has called my work in the past tring to get me fired and wrote a letter, she claims I broke confidentiallity laws, but obviously did not. She has called DSS on me 3 times tring to get my foster daughter taken away, which did not happen we are now adopting her. She refused to knock on my door to get her son last Friday, she called my DH to have him call me to send out my 4 year old SS.

FLEA BM IS A BITC#

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Submitted by Rosedeer1 on Fri, 01/02/2009 - 4:08pm

I am a teacher and have breaks off of school so on my DHs days with his son I watch him when he has no school. I have no idea where he goes when she has him. She works at a school but not a teacher so she has to work the breaks but get out early at 2 instead of 3:30 so she picked him up from my house that I built with DH whom she is still in love with. She did not want to pick him up from me but if not she would have to wait until 5:30 for DH to bring him to her house. So my DH calls me and tells me she called him and to have my 4 year old SS out in the driveway waiting for her.

WHY

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Submitted by Rosedeer1 on Sun, 12/28/2008 - 6:38pm

Why do I let the little things get to me?? Why cant I just be happy having an amazing DH and a new house and a foster daughter and stepson I love, eventhough some times the two of them together makes me crazy, why cant I just ignore BM and live my life the one I want. I do I concentrate so much on BM being unhappy, when she is not happy I am soooo happy but when she seems happy I get aggravated, I just want to forget she even exist and let my DH deal with her.

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