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So yesterday I received a phone call and was given some disturbing information.
A friend of mine called me yesterday to ask me a question.
Her question was this:
Is "so and so" living with BM?
I have decided to "check out" for the rest of the day today. BM has the skids and calls FH this morning and has ruined the day.
I don't need to go into any details. I just have to say that even when we don't have the skids, BM will call and "tattle" on them to FH which ruins his day. I've told him before to not let her do that. She needs to handle her own children. They NEVER misbehave for us the way they do for her. So, anyway, FH gets SD10 on the phone so that he can yell at her. Then when he hangs up and I start to give him my two cents on the subject AGAIN - he tells me to not say anything - that this problem is between the BM and him and HIS kids. Needless to say - I am pissed.
O/T Big Time. I'm thinking of getting some "enhancements".
Maybe too personal from some - but if you're bold enough, please give it up.
Has anybody on here had a boob job?
Soooooooooo tired and irritated.......and I know I shouldn't be.
So tomorrow's the Halloween parties at the skids' school. I am head room mom for SD10 only AFTER giving BM the opportunity to do it if she wanted to - she didn't. So, I have been running around like a crazy person getting everything I need, speaking with the other parents, and coming up with some creative games to play at the party, etc..........
Do your skids ever say things that just sound "rehearsed"?
This happened this past weekend with me. We were driving in the car and talking about the upcoming Halloween party at the skids school where I am head-room parent to SD10. We were talking about costumes and such..........and then the "rehearsed" talk.
SD8 - "can we get Halloween costumes this weekend?"
Me - "I don't know if we're gonna have time this weekend because of pumpkin carving, and my mom's bday party, and you know you guys are going to BM's early on Sunday because daddy and me are going to the football game, so maybe BM can take you on Sunday."
UGH!!! BM strikes again!!!
FH just left to take some antibiotics to SD8. I am not in agreement with this, but who the hell am I?
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Isn't having "some" money better than having "no" money?!
BM quit her job. BIG SURPRISE!
This woman is absolutely incapable of supporting herself. She's one of the most irresponsible adults I have ever met. We allowed SD10 to sign up for an after-school fun activity for five Tuesdays (our day) and we paid the $15 for her. SD8 wanted to sign up for a Wednesday activity (BM's day) and we told her she would have to talk to BM about that and that BM would have to pay for it. Money needed to be turned in by today. FH got a call from BM this morning saying that she would not have the money for this because she quit her job.
What is so wrong with spending the weekend apart? You be with your kids and I'll be with mine.
This weekend we're supposed to go camping. Okay, sounds great, but my 16 y/o BD is not feeling well and she gets kinda bored when we go camping anyway. Usually, she'll just stay home and we go without her, but this weekend I would rather stay with her and let FH go with the skids. Whenever we go camping all I ever hear is "can we drive the golf cart?" "can we go to the store?" "whose turn is it to drive the golf cart?" "she drove the last time!" "she drove for 42 more seconds than I did!"
FH pressuring me for a wedding date.........I'm so hesitant to do this.
FH wants us to get married next month. We got engaged in May. We are not having a giant wedding, just a few close friends and the families. We could pull everything together and do it next month, but I'm scared to death.
I told myself for seven years that I would never remarry. My first marriage was not a good one and my divorce went on for six years and my ex and I NEVER speak. (a blessing!)
Why do some men try to change the very thing(s) that attracted them to us in the first place?
My girlfriend told me once several years ago that my looks and personality attract men to me, but as soon as they have me, they want me to change all that.
Every man I have dated has tried to change me. They want me to now start acting differently when we're out. Be LESS outgoing and friendly (which SO's consider flirting!), watch the eye contact (considered flirting, too!), and ONLY pay attention to ME ME ME ME ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!