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The skids sent their mom a text saying "love you" from FH's phone.
And a friend of mine says the BM is going around showing everybody this text from FH to HER saying "love you".
I got furious. I explained to this friend how the skids sent the text. I had to help them find her number in FH's phone so that they could send her a text. I didn't know what they sent until a couple days ago. Although, I'm sure my friend believes me - others won't.
Because *I* am not the "real" mom..............this is a little long.
Last night we went to a party for FH's niece. The party started at 6:30 and ended at 9:30.
6:30 - we get there and they start serving pizza. SD10 is sulking and refuses to eat, saying she is not hungry. Okay, fine but you are not going to eat when we get home at 10:00 so you should eat here and you haven't eaten since lunchtime. SD10 still says she is not hungry.
7:00 - party is happening - kids are dancing and mingling, there's a strobe light and a disco ball, and everyone is having tons of fun - except SD10 who sits by us and refusing to even socialize.
Please Please Please tell me this has happened to you...................
FH will be telling a story that includes me. I am looking at him like he has three heads.
I then say "THAT WASN'T ME."
I wasn't there. We didn't do that. I never met that person. That wasn't MY black nightie! No, we never had "doggy sex" in our bathtub.
Aggravating! Men can be such boneheads!
And to all you men on here - I am being lighthearted about this. You have PROBABLY all done this.
I may have done it maybe once or twice - NOT!!!!!
So, BM says she's dating my EX?!.....
BM told a friend of mine to tell me that she is dating my EX. I made this friend repeat this.
Wait a minute "she told you to tell me that she's dating my EX?"
My friend says yes, she told me to tell you that. She says they went to a New Years Eve party together.
My reaction - "Wonderful!" "Please tell BM that I hope it works out for the best and that they can be as happy as me and FH and hopefully they will BOTH move on."
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How many of you have slept with your EX after it was over?
Just curious. My EX was a "two pump chump", so why would I even bother? I had better things to do like: watch grass grow, watch paint dry, wash my hair, trim my toenails, etc............
I just don't get this. And also, FH told me that BM was never really into sex that much and that she was not as "adventurous" as I am.
In my mind, if it's over - IT'S OVER.
So, I just found out that FH is a liar................he slept with BM AFTER the divorce.
I had specifically asked him this question many months ago and he was EMPHATIC with a big fat NO! I found out today that he is a liar. I heard this rumor today and I asked him to please be 100% honest with me and he said that "yes, he slept with her right after their divorce was final". I don't care that he slept with her. Their divorce was 4 years ago, I wasn't even around then. BUT - he lied.
I am pissed. I don't know where to go from here.
This sick feeling I get in my gut................it's because there is the "other woman" in our lives.
This is what bothers me the most. I never dated a man with kids before, much less, got engaged to one! I never had to worry about the "other woman" being involved with my life. (except their mothers, of course!) This "other woman" gets to request favors, make demands, and make decisions that affect my daily life.
You're harder on my kids than you are on your own.....................
I heard this over the weekend and just about BLEW my top.
The details are very long and don't really matter anyway, but when FH said this to me - my response was F**K YOU! That's right - I threw the F-bomb right out there. We were in the garage where we go to have our "private" talks.
Okay, so we got the skids early this morning because BM had to work today.........so she said.
FH was on his way home from a job a little before noon and he passes by one of BM's favorite bars. Her car is in the parking lot. FH comes in the door, shoos the skids out of the kitchen where I am doing the dishes, still in my pajamas (lazy day), and he tells me to go "pretty" myself up because we are going to this bar. I ask why and he says because BM is there. I ask "so, what are we gonna do when we get there?" and he says we will just walk in and order a drink, drink it, and then just leave.
OMG!!!!!!! SD8 just got here maybe 20 minutes ago and...........
I have heard my name no less than 50 times in that short amount of time.
SD8 is playing the WII and it's a constant "Rusty, watch this! Rusty, look at this! Rusty, did you SEE that! Rusty, look at me, look at me, look at me! Rusty Rusty Rusty Rusty Rusty Rusty Rusty Rusty Rusty Rusty Rusty Rusty Rusty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AND I AM THE ONLY ONE IN THE ROOM, SO SAYING MY NAME THAT MANY TIMES IS UNNECESSARY!
Ha Ha, but I love her and she is totally adorable.
I think I will go play the WII with her now.