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Submitted by SisterNeko on Fri, 01/20/2012 - 1:17pm

Does being a step-parent and seeing you SO with another woman's kids/problems give you concerns about how good of a father he will be to YOUR future children?

The other day we were watching Juno and I started to cry a little at the end when Jeniffer Garner character gets to told her (adopted) baby for the first time. FDH was making fun of me, he knows that I want a baby but we have agreed to wait until after the wedding (in Oct), so I asked him if I needed to get the book "what to expect when you expecting" and mark the daddy chapters for him.

Still processing

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Mon, 12/26/2011 - 9:32am

Yesterday wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. It was a little painful to watch as FDH had a wonderful time with his kids while I sat on the side lines. I pointed out to him later that not a single photo of me had been taken all day (mainly because I was behind the camera all day) and he wonders why I want a baby of my own.

suddenly it makes sense, sort of

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Mon, 12/19/2011 - 2:23pm

For awhile now WE (FHD and I) have noticed that even though the boys (ss4 and ss6) have their own rooms at our house they usually hang out together in SS4's room. We thought it was odd and they get to fighting so I send SS6 to his room, but shortly after I walk away he goes back in there. Now both rooms have TV's and SS6's is actually bigger.

I know that they share a room at BM's, but you would think that they would like the be alone some times.

FDH confronted BM about the money she 'took'

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Mon, 12/19/2011 - 12:14pm

As many of you had said we probably won't get the money back but BM was informed (more or less) that we know what she did and what has been done to insure that she can't do that again in the future.

For those of you that don't follow my posts - FDH recently found out that a medical bill he paid half of may not have been for SS4, it may have been for BM.

BM is either crooked or an idiot - legal question too.

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Tue, 12/13/2011 - 8:06pm

FDH found out today, after looking into the a recent medical bill that BM said he owed half of that, that it may not have been SS4 medical bill, it might have been BM's!

It was shady from the start and as much as I would love to give BM credit for taking $100 bucks from FDH, it may just have been her own stupidity at work.

FDH doesn't get it

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Tue, 12/13/2011 - 10:15am

I don't think that I am being unreasonable but maybe I am (you tell me).

This isn't really a new thing with me and FDH but lately it seems to be getting worse and I don't know how to explain to him how I feel about it. It doesn't appear that he understands it at all though.

Night mare

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Fri, 12/09/2011 - 2:58pm

I had this really bad dream last night and I woke up so pissed off at FDH even though he didn't do anything and that it will never come true.

SO the dream was That FDH cheated on me with BM and got her pregnant (again) and he kept telling me that it was fine and that this time it would be different. This time it would be okay - like she was suddenly going to be the worlds best mom.

I hate laziness in SKids

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Fri, 12/02/2011 - 9:11am

I am not sure what to do any more with my SKids laziness. I am not working so I baby sit for them. I was just wondering if you guys think that I am expecting too much, BM seems to think so, but I think she is retarded. Smile

And does it make me lazy that I don't want to do EVERYTHING for them?

I have 2 SS (ages 6 1/2 and 4 1/2 - both birthdays are in MAY)

This week I threw in the towel with both of them.

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