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Submitted by SisterNeko on Fri, 07/08/2011 - 2:58pm

I need some impartial third party opinions. BF and I have been bouncing an idea around for awhile but I am nervous about it on both end. Should I quit my job and become a stay at home step-mom/freelance artist or deal with sitter issues and a stressful possibly dead end job?

First the issues with the job.

I jinxed myself

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Thu, 07/07/2011 - 10:40am

Last night and this morning I was thinking to myself that we hadn't heard from BM yet this week. Which worried me a little since (for those of you that don't read all my posts) the last time she dropped them off she left a 'love' note for BF asking for a truce and telling him what a good father he was, which angered me when she referred to US as "You and whoever you are with". And she also told us that we were using the notebook wrong - we were writing in it like a journal.

I saw this online

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Fri, 07/01/2011 - 8:46am

I saw this story online this morning and wanted to share. Since BM has shown she is a 'letter writer' and thinks she is better than everyone else, I fear this may be my Step Sons future. I could totally see BM doing this to some poor girl that happens to fall in love with her son but does not meet her standards - hell she has sent BF a few of these regarding me...

http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/mother-in-law-sends-worst-email-ever-...

the notebook (and some venting)

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Mon, 06/27/2011 - 1:42pm

no not the movie, the notebook that BM left with the boys after her and BF got into it about me. Well apparently we have not been using it right. We had been using it like a journal, writing what we did and BF's thoughts and feeling on some matters, since he can't tell her on the phone becuase she doesn't let him get a word in half the time (she literally talks over him). I guess it was just to be used for need to know info and questions.

Chronic liar and IEP stuff

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Thu, 06/23/2011 - 11:34am

I hate liars. Does anyone know anything about IEP? I am on a fact find mission for BF. I try to not get involved but i do like to give BF the facts and hope he will do the right thing with them. We have always had an issue with BM lying (about everything) but lately it's at an all time high and about stuff that she should not be lying about. Which has made BF and I question her more and look into the truth more. She called last night and said something to BF along the line of "Don't you trust me." "Do you think that I am lying" to which BF said nothing.

concerns confirmed, BF still doesn't see it

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Mon, 06/20/2011 - 2:05pm

I have always had concerns about BF's kids when it came to the thought of us having a baby. Not that we are trying or anything but you never know what is going to happen. I have told him that I want to wait for a lot of reasons and if we were to have an 'oops' we should consider all of our options. He LOVES kids and I think he would have another right now if I would go along with it. But the main reason I want to want is his current kids, SS4 and SS6. They have some issues that I think need to be worked on before you bring a baby into the picture.

Father's day - is it wrong?

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Mon, 06/13/2011 - 1:20pm

I have a question about Father's Day gift giving and step children. BM claims (and I intend to check one day when I am bored and have nothing better to do but read over their divorce) that the divorce says they HAVE to get each other gifts from the kids on Mother's Day, Father's day, Birthday's and Xmas. I think it's stupid and I plan to get BF something from ME and the boys, even though BM already gave him a gift 'from the boys'. So my question is would I be crossing a line there?

That didn't last long

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Fri, 06/10/2011 - 10:33am

BM was mad at us a few weeks ago. It started Monday when BM txt'ed BF a pic. That is not shocking by it's self but since BM was so mad and declared that she 'Wanted nothing from BF' i find it funny that she seems to have suddenly forgiven him and agreed to his terms (so far) to only talk to him about the kids.

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