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Submitted by somerg on Mon, 01/03/2011 - 8:06am

this is not about steps of any kind, but my ex sister inlaw, she has pushed and pushed and pushed, pushed to the point my brother made a bad decision went out drinking and got arrested for drunk driving...yes shame on him for making a poor decision..shame on my mom for leaving him in a bad mindset under poor circumstances.

how would you

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Submitted by somerg on Wed, 12/29/2010 - 9:55am

this is not a smom vs bm post for once! but i'm curious, i have a friend that i LOVE to be around with an out of control son (8) that i CAN'T STAND TO BE AROUND. They were over Christmas day and i about went through the roof with him/them. and she is VERY aware of her son's misbahaviour, even says her self he's a jack#$@#$@#

in serious revenge mode-just venting, thanks for reading if you did!

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Submitted by somerg on Tue, 12/28/2010 - 1:17pm

ok, so as much as i try and try and try I'M EXPLODING EHRE and the pot just keeps boiling so i'm exploding on here. the first thing skids said was that it's dad's fault the divorce happened uh, TWO names are on that marriage license, and MOM cheated on dad in their own home! THEN bm told them since i'm such a good mom they can come live with us-please do, then SHE can pay cs instead of him-they made a "smom is doing this for ssister, and she's younger than us" comment!

just posted but have a question

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Submitted by somerg on Mon, 12/27/2010 - 10:22am

this does not involve skids, or bkids, or parents on either side, but my best friends son who is a COMPLETE jack a$$! when my dh and i "babysit" the kids they are good but they also know we're not catering to the bs son throws-as long as parents are not there, we have control over them and they are good. they came over for Christmas and wern't there 5 MIN and her son started in and omg mom and dad let him argue and be a complete jerk off.

bm is greedy and a selfish female dog

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Submitted by somerg on Wed, 12/22/2010 - 12:46pm

ok so 6 months ago my dh's ex and his kids agreed to standard visitation which this year would've given him ALL of Christmas..not all of the modification is done and none of it's filed in court (the new visitation that is RIGHTFULLY dh's time on christmas). she's strict on "if it's not ordered i wont and dont' have to agree to it" but bad about, o i scheduled this on your time for the girls and have already paid for it guilt trip bs-and my dh gives in EVERY TIME! christmas is RIGHT around the corner and so far she is refusing him the extra time simply cause she can.

sd is mad at me for getting my daughter an e-mail

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Submitted by somerg on Tue, 12/21/2010 - 10:52am

All the kids got an e-mail addy until oldest sd decided to start sending e-mails and registered an e-mail to a different server without parental permission...the e-mails were my idea and i helped them all set up, so i deleted them all because it cause friction between dh and bm.

SO a while later, sd admited to us about setting up a new account and said "you would've never known had i not told you" REALLY is that the game we're gonna play? (mom does not monitor her actions closely)

"new at stepparenting"

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Submitted by somerg on Mon, 12/20/2010 - 12:49pm

ok so i've only been a step mom for almost 2 years. may not be new to some but to me i'm still "learning". I'm young compared to my dh he's 50 (almost 51) and i'm 27 (almost 28) my daughter is almost 8 and youngest sd just turned 13 friday and middle sd wb 15 in july oldest is grown and in TN (not an issue with her).

I was raised with step parents on both sides, knew my sd well growing up (hated him) and because dad wasn't there just spent last 10 years getting to know sm and in june gave her my ok to call me her d and say "our daughter" when introducing me to ppl-we're close.

such a control FREAK!

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Submitted by somerg on Mon, 12/20/2010 - 10:32am

ok so i'm sorry i'm sooooo aggrivated at my dh's ex wife. she's always been such a control freak and has sole custody of the girls (long story) well, he's had less than standard visitation because at first the girls were mad at him and that's all they wanted. Eventually their anger lessened and said and had asked mom for more time with dad, but she wouldn't ever allow it because she "wasn't required to".

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