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And now she's Jewish?

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Submitted by Stepcop on Tue, 07/24/2012 - 8:40pm

Ok so my dh's mother made the decision to be Jewish. She is a very kind women, but very nutty. She changes religion like underwear and becomes fanatical about each one. Sd13 spent quite a bit of time with her this summer, and though we have talked and talked to mil about not forcing her religion on the kids, she does anyway. Well sd went on vacation with bm. Dh gets frantic texts about how sd13 has told the whole Carla's of people Jesus means nothing to her, ad she s a Jew. She said a lot more, and in true sd form was very hateful.

More nail polish issues...

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Submitted by Stepcop on Thu, 07/19/2012 - 12:06am

I'm still out of town training, i don't finish until Friday noon. I decided to do something nice for myself and get my nails done. I gave this, pedicures, and tanning up a while ago when me and dh decided to move into a nicer, gated apartment so the kids would be safer. Before him I was fine living reasonable, but our expenses have jumped, we can't buy a house right now because of the foreclosure bm stuck us with when she refused to use the court ordered money for house payment, on the actual house payment.

I just lost it over nail polish

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Submitted by Stepcop on Mon, 07/16/2012 - 11:47pm

I am 600 miles away on a work trip. Sd13 got home from bm's last night and according to dh she was a bit argumentative, haha, that's what you get for raising an entitled psychopathic brat. Well tonight I called to check in and everything is fine, house is frine, cat is fine (fed, sleeping on the back of the couch fat and sassy, so I know sd hasn't been torturing her like usual), then dh says when sd was at her friends house, the friend was practicing painting ails and messed up her nails, so sd is borrowing my ail polish. He said he told her it was ok as long as she put it back.

My dh is being a big dumba$$

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Submitted by Stepcop on Sun, 07/15/2012 - 8:17pm

Typically my dh only has one big issue with the skids, the whole cuddling gross thing. I have been traveling a lot for work, I just got a promotion, and have to attend all these trainings. I was home for all of about 48 hours this weekend kid free. I tried to tell him I was feeling sort of down, and didn't know why. Usually he will talk through things like that with me. This time he just jumped in with m, "me too. I hate living her (we cant move because of divorce decree), and I am so tired of my body hurting (he has fibromyalgia).

Where is

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Submitted by Stepcop on Sat, 07/14/2012 - 12:32pm

The lady who was contacted on the Internet by a possible bm, and she wanted to get custody, husband didn't care, had already signed rights over to one kid, but the bm kept emailing and calling, said she couldn't afford a DNA?

Being ignored

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Submitted by Stepcop on Fri, 07/13/2012 - 12:19pm

I tried to talk to my dh about my sd13s huge ch,anges in behavior from when anyone else is around, to when it is just the two of us. He said it is normal kid behavior....maybe. But I think it's more. She ignores me completely when it's the two f us, even if I am talking directly to her. But if there is anyone else around, she pretends I'm the mother she always wanted. I think it's part of her manipulation. After she was hospitalized she sat me down and apologized for all her ugly behavior.

Something wrong

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Submitted by Stepcop on Wed, 07/11/2012 - 8:41pm

As I said, I'm new. I have posted two blogs, and haven't gotten but one response to either. Am I doing something wrong? I have read on this site for a very long time and ont think I ever saw someone who didn't receive support or advice....did I say something wrong without realizing? Did I post wrong?

I look like stepcop says sd

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Submitted by Stepcop on Wed, 07/11/2012 - 1:03am

So I was thinking about something that happened the other day, and can't figure out what sd13's game is. My dh's grandparents came to our apartment for the first time ever (they are both very I'll and have a hard time traveling). It was wonderful having them over, and we all just sat at the table drinking coffee and talking. Of course sd13 couldn't stand not being the focus of everyone's world and kept coming in and saying random things or screaming at dh that we needed help getting packed up for her grandmas. While I was getting a.

I'm new

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Submitted by Stepcop on Tue, 07/10/2012 - 7:01pm

Hi! I'm new here, but have been reading for sometime. Things have finally gotten to the point with my sd13, I am completely at a loss. I have two step kids, sd13, and ss10. Sd13 lives with us full time, and because of the horrible way she perceives she has been treated by her bm, she is just now developing a relationship with her after about 5 months of no contact.

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