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How do those girls play such good games? I'm talking about my step daughters, YOUR step daughters, anyones step daughters who play so well.
They are bitches. it is the cold, harsh truth,they are bitches. I know they are just teens. But it doesn't change the facts.

They manipulate, blackmail, abuse..
Yet everyone except a few "enlightened" people fawns all over them because they're so cute and sweet and omg amazing.

So they want him to choose..

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Basically, SDs said that the problem is not that they lived with their aunt before because that's what they wanted, the problem is not that they're living with another aunt now because that works for them too, they basically said that they do not like ME and the fact that their father had a child with "such a terrible bitch".
So they said also that if he stays with me , he's dead for them and they will never talk to him again. Considering the bitches that they are this is most likely a serious threat.

I dont know what to do

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SDs are still with their aunt. They don't want even to talk to my husband let alone live with him again. He went to the aunt's house and all they said was "hello" and wouldn't even look at him after it.
He's depressed and totally f**ked up.He doesn't pay attention to anything and anyone anymore, walks around like a zombie and I suppose thinks about them.
He doesn't care about me or the baby he just sits around all sulky. Our relationship is going downhill,he won't even talk.

They are leaving right now

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My husband's taking step daughters to their aunt's.. he said that it's for tonight and a few days maybe..then we'll see what next It's not the aunt they lived at but another one close to us..
He just called her to ask if it's ok and she agreed.. She will let them do whatever they want and give them whatever they ask for.. So they're bursting with joy
but I don't care as long as they're away from me and my baby

THEY ARE FUCKING NUTJOBS

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They broke a shitload of stuff in the house
I'm literally shaking

I came to steptalk because I think it's the best place for this
You can understand me and if I talked to someone else they might not

They broke the DVD, fucked up something with the TV so it won't work now but it doesn't appear to be broken, hid my phone somewhere or stole it and broke a few plates and glasses..on one of the chairs..like the part you sit on..is ripped out
the furniture in the living room was moved around and I guess they did more stuff but I won't go check now

Maybe it will help...or no

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Since step daughters wouldn't stop their shit, DH told them he's taking off the time limits from their punishments. Now it's until they can be normal people. He said he sold their electronics but he just took them to the garage. (They have no access)

Their rooms are put together - it's one big room separated by shelves. One of the shelves was easy to move and walk through so that was like a door but we fixed that so it can't be moved like that.

The locks are off the doors and the doors can only be closed in case they're changing.

cant think of a good title

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So basically ,today they broke every single rule we gave them this morning.
Not one did they skip. (except for the school related ones...TWO OF THEM!)
Oh my god.
I'm beyond PISSED. I have NO IDEA WHAT TO DO.

The punishments we gave them :

1. A week without phones and + 1 week for each gadget they turn in. They gave their laptops, mp4 players, and cameras along with the phones. And they unplugged the TV. So that's 5 weeks. They said they know it and accept it.

We set rules and punishments

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So this morning, my husband and I set the rules for stepdaughtetrs...And the punishments in case rules get broken.
He agrees that their behaviour must be changed and that they NEED punishments in order to learn how to behave.
I'm so happy that he at least sees how bad they are behaving and wants to do something about it.
I was there with him setting rules,he thinks it's okay if I do it becuase it's my home too and the rules have to do with me as well.

First time posting..

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Hello everyone. This is my first time posting so I'll try to explain my situation.
I found steptalk by googling about step children problems and I'm really happy to discover there's a community for step parents. I really am lost and in need of help.