Yesterday afternoon there was a knock on our door and I thought it was somebody selling something. They asked if my oldest ss was here. I informed them that I haven't seen him in over 6 months. But my dh saw him 1 1/2 months ago. Well they said they were there looking for him on behalf of the child support agency!!! I told them we would try to contact him an let him know to get hold of them.

My BS has had a job for roughly, and Im not stretching it, 1 month. He has already been fired. He has worked, or supposed to have worked is a beter term, for 15 days. Out of those 15 days he either left early, or never showed up for at least 10 of those days!! This is the 3rd job in 2 years that he has had that he has been fired from.

My oldest daughter is trying to enter into the national guard.Her bf is already sworn in. She told me that ifshe passesthat her and bf want to get married before he shops out. If she doesn't pass themshe said that they will wait until Dec when he comes home for 2 Weeks. I've told her that o just don't think that the 2 of them are not grown up enough.
What else can I say? Over also told them I'd like ity if they lived together for a while first.
They are talking about getting married in the next 10-15 days....

My SS21 hasn't had anything to do with either DH or me in I dont know how long. Last summer, he had his car parked in our yard, without our permission. So we had him move it. About 4-6 months ago, SS21 called Dh out of the blue, and asked him to take him to a job interview. When Dh said something to the effect of "why didnt you call earlier?" SS21 cussed him out and hung up. SS21 called DH back 5 min. later said sorry, and wanted him to still come get him. Dh, of course did it. (much to my unhappiness)