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SD is the queen so what does that make me?
Yeah I get it... It's not meant to be easy! Yeah I get that.
I will forever be no.2
He will always choose daughter over me.
But I don't think its fair that SD gets treated like a queen and I am nothing and that's ok??? Why ever happened to respecting your elders.
I'm honestly over this!
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I think my relationship with FDH is failing because of this
I just had a light bulb moment. FDH are going through a "weird-silence" at the moment. It's happened before, this time it's unsettling.
It started on Sunday (After my last post).
We had a chat in the car on the way to work on Monday morning. I told him my concerns of him overcompensating his guilt with spoiling his daughter, which I've since learnt is typical Disneyland Daddy Syndrome, which is unsustainable. After his weekend with SD6 she went to bed early Sunday night exhausted and with a tummy ache from all the goodies she ate with her day out with Daddy.
BM wants to have a coffee/drink with me?? why??
DFH just informed me that the BM of SD6 wishes to have a chat with me. OK...
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SD6 could kill somebody and still wouldn't be her fault!!!
Just another quick vent.
Yesterday morning, FDH was moving the cars around the front yard and he lets SD sit on his lap and let her "drive". But this time SD thought she'd play with some buttons. I don't know how but FDH had his his hand in the door window while the window was down and SD closed the window on his finger.
FDH was pissed.
Never once has this child EVER been told about saying sorry. Everyone just says that ok, it's not your fault. Whatever.
WHATEVER?!?!?!!!???
FDH just doesn't get it!!! If you play hard all day/wknd and eat crap and sweets of course SD6 is going to get sick!
I would love to say "I TOLD YOU SO" so loud into his face right now... but do you think he'd get it even after his daughter has gone to bed early with a stomach ache on a sunday night from exhaustion??
only 2 hours ago I was having a conversation with FDH that he's weekends with SD are over the top and they are unsustainable!!. For once I actually agree with the BM. BM claims that SD always gets sick after a weekend with FDH. Surely after this weekend if he doesn't come to his senses, i don't know what will.
Feeling like the third wheel (my first post, desperation)
Hi I just joined this site.
I've been seeing a counsellor for almost a year now in order to deal with the feelings I have when my (to be) SD.
I have to admit I didn't always had gut wrenching feelings towards her. Only in the past 18months or so. And to be honest it's not always like this either. To be quite frank, she's only worse when he's in the room, it's like she's plays on it. I don't what she gets away with when she's with her BM.