And BM is making noises that he can't live with her. She enabled him to the point of being found in contempt of court by providing an alibi that was later disproven. He made my life a living hell for four years. Stole my jewelry, my grandfather's coin collection, my money. I was not "allowed" to file charges against him as DH did not want me to put his son in jail. He didn't seem to get that his son's behavior would be what put him in jail. SS finally stole from strangers and was caught, convicted of felony theft and incarcerated.