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privacy and alone time doesn't exist

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me and SO were supposed to go out to eat by ourselves. my mil said she would watch the baby but when i call her she's out. i don't mind bringing the baby with but we have t bring my ss8 with becuz SO let ss13 stay out with friends. so what i thought would be a night to talk alone. no I'm stuck listening to ss8. I'm not going to say a word. me and SO hAve been fighting a lot for the past couple months. we NEED time alone to talk but NO!!!!! I'm so sick of never having time alone. then what gets me more,, mad is that SO goes otut with his friends all the time.

dead beat BMs aka egg donors

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I'm so tired and frustrated that bms responsibilities are now mine.to explain what type of person I'm dealing with--&- a small background. bm leaves her 5 Year old and baby with SO so she can party with her friends. SO was with his ex gf for 5 years. younger SS would call her mom. bm would stop in to be a parent

at least give money

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bm does nothing for her kids.she lives in California with her other 2 younger kids. after i found out she was claiming all 4 kids to get link card,housing and cash assistance i lost any humanity i had for her. in all the yeas she was claiming them she never once sent any money for food or anything. the last time she saw them was last July only becuz i made them go see her cuz i was pregnant and stressed out. this summer both SS have summer school so i don't get a break. but Im at the point where i literally don't want to spend any of my.money on them. i work full time all week for $10/HR.

wish me luck

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back in 2009 i submitted my ss8 pics to a casting company for extras. they just called me yesterday and would like me to send them a current picture becuase hey are casting for a new TV. when i met my SO 4 years ago i told him if he doesn't put his kids in modeling he's stupid,well i had to take the initiative and do it but hopefully something good comes from this. and SS is really excited he's always talked about being an actor dancer Singer etc . hoping for the best,expecting he worst.

new to step talk

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IM new here. I've been with my bf,my son's father for almost. 4 years. our baby is 10 months.he has 2 sons by a complete idiot. i didn't know what i was getting into being a stepmom. it sucks!!!!! plus their birth mother does nothing for her kids emotionally or financially. i feel so overwhelmed. i feel like no one understands what i go thru. i hope joining this site will give me some guidance and hopefully i can connect with other stepmoms who feel like the wicked stepmother.

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