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Do you and your husband discuss money when it involves sd?
The sd has started taking gymnastics and has been asked by the teacher to join the competitive cheer team.
The other night I over heard my husband on the phone with the ex. He told her he didnt care how much it cost and if he had to work over to go ahead and tell her she can do it.
This really floored me. I havet said anything to him yet, but its great that he is so gung hoe on this, but with competitive cheerleading there is a price tag.
should i break down and ask or should he offer to tell me
My husband informed me last night that his daughter had to go to the emergency room yesterday morning. He did not tell me until last night and I really feel that this is one of those things he could have called me about as soon as he found out...which was around lunch yesterday.
She was running a high fever and stomach aches.
Well, come to find out she went to gymnatics last night and practiced and also had a friend spend the night and she had been in the er that morning.
Update on sd and ex watching baby...
So Friday night, my husband comes in and asked me yet again if I was ok with sd/ex watching our 1 year old child.
I BLEW his hair back and told him to never ask that question agin. First off, the sd cannot even change a diaper. She has not even offered to help feed or change the baby so why in the hell would I let her watch him without my supervision.
Secondly, even if the sd could I didnt want him at the ex's because it is not her child and I can raise my child with out the help of her.
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My husband just asked me to think about his daughter and ex wife keeping out child...how in the hell should I respond to that on
So tomorrow I am helping a friend move and my husband plans on helping when he gets off work. Well, I have asked a freind to baby sit but they had plans. I was talking to my husband about it and he said he had thought about letting his daughter baby sit our 15 month old. I asked how this was going to help becasue she would have to be with us and whats the point I would end up watching 2 kids istead of one and it would be more on me.
Wonder if people would notice if I just up and moved far far away...sounds like a fairy tail, but it has been crossing my mind t
Do you ever feel like you are are always second on everybodys list? I do ALL the time. Between my husband and my mother I feel like I am in a hole a cannot get out. I feel as if the water is being filled up with water and eventually I will drown.
Back to the real world and the ex family
So vacation is over and I already want to go away again. I had not been home more than 24 hours and my husbands ex-mother-in-law is already calling. WTH! This woman PISSES me off. She has to be one of the fakest people I know.
She called to wish my husband a happy fathers day (REALLY) and to ask him something about the kids. Um hello...the kids can talk and so can the ex...believe me, I hear their mouths way to much!
I really have issues with this. I am not jealous of her, but it is just weird. My husband says he talks to her "for the kids".
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Do you ever ur feel like your husband goes behind your back and does stuff in a sneaky way so you won't find out.
Well, the princess aka stepdaughter got what she wanted AGAIN! Last week, the sd wanted the I-phone. My husband and I discused it and I told him that I thought she was to young and NOT responisble enough yet to have one. Supposly, we ALL (mother, father, step-mother, stepfather) were in agreement the sd would not get the I-phone she would get the phone that her insurance would allow her to get.
When they get older...it just gets worse...who would have thought a 23 yr old would be such a baby
SO, the other day my husband and I were watching good ole Dr. Phil and the particular few minutes we saw had to do with a 23 yr old male who lived in basement and had no job and used the bathroom in a bottle becasue he was to lazy to get up and go up stairs and use the restroom. Now, the step father probably didnt have any business saying what he did to the childon a daily basis. But, I so could see the step fathers side. HE said the mother enabled the child and babied him.
What the H**LL am I the only freaking one with some brains! Obviously so,,,,GRRRRRRR!
So my lazy ass step daugther is at it again. The past couple of weeks my sd has been mentioning that her phone is giving her issues. (Well, if I stayed on mine as much as she did hers then I can see why.)
Well yesterday, the ex and sd call dear old dad and want the sd to be moved over to our plan so she can get a new phone.
Its getting closer and I am NOT going to give in!!
In my previous blog I vented about how my husband and I are going to a party and my mother did not get an invite so now she is acting like a 2 year old about it.
After our phone conversation on Monday (my mother and I) I have finally decided that we WILL not be staying with her after the party. This was an opportunity that she could have had to spend time with me and my family. But, becasue of her attitude and the way she treated me, I have came to the conclusion that we still will attend the party, but will be coming home.
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