Ok...so when the step kids are over I try to stay out of their way...DISENGAGE as much as possible. I am not mean and if they talk to me I talk to them, This really makes my husband furious. I think, he thinks, I should like throw a party every time his children grace us with thier presence.... :sick: !!

Well, the step kids have not been over the house in a few weeks and my husband hasnt mentioned them to me and being a nice person and trying to make conversation, I asked how they were both doing? I normally do this..because that is what you do.

So we got out income taz done a week or so ago. This week my husband informed me that he thinks he is going on just give my sd our income tax money for a school trip in the summer. I was shocked and pissed.

First and foremost, the people that are going on the trip know about the trip and the cost a year in advance, the parents and children also have fundraisers to cut the cost of the trip.

Well, my sd has not done the first thing to earn her money for her trip. Me, the stepmother has done more than her father and I am married to him.

I have blogged about my parents before. I am 29 years old and my parents are divorced. When I was younger my mom was the one that I counted on. She was there for me when others were not. Well, fast foward to now, and she, my mother, is not afraid to let me know that she was the one that did everything. It is like she holds it over my head all the time and it gets soooo old.

Ok...my sd is rather weird! Get this..she is 14 and acts like she is 7. We went out for lunch yesterday and she started talking in baby talk and wanted her daddy to set by her because she did not want to set on the other side of the table all alone.

Then before we ordered she says out loud. I jsut texted my mom because I dont know what to eat. She willtext me back and tell me what I want????

Then its time to order and she does not want to order the food. She asks her father to tell the waitress what she wants.