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I just want to rip my hair out.

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Tue, 06/05/2012 - 11:39pm

Seriously...Dh has No custody agreement. Shame on him. He never has. Never will. He has been calling the girls since Friday night - he worked all weekend so he/we did not have them. BM has been refusing to answer the phone. Cool. Make the kids suffer. He hasn't seen them since Thursday night - he got them for a few hours because he had to work and couldn't get them during the weekend. He calls tonight and go figure she answers and does not have them with her...as she seems to never even have them with her. They get into a heated argument.

me? a possible stepdaughter...never thought this would happen.

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Tue, 05/29/2012 - 12:45am

So...the whole time I have been on this site I have talked about my parents and how I always wanted to end up just like them...married happily for 30 years...still holding hands - no huge brawls - working together as a team (and they literally coached soccer teams getting #1 spots in the nation together) - they raised us well. They were always out together. People here worship my parents relationship. They are like peanut butter and jelly. or were...

THE HAIR!!! and etc.

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Mon, 05/28/2012 - 1:39am

So after the "alleged" abuse the girls told us happened...They did ask to go home after 4 days...I don't think there was a real SLAP to the face or whatever happened...There wasn't a mark on them. I think BM just went a little over the top and scared them because she was so sick of their horrendous behavior...which she is 75% responsible for because she has let them get away with murder...act like little divas...and allowed them to talk back and be disrespectful while in her presence.

Blog #4 on BM incidents.

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Fri, 04/20/2012 - 11:30pm

I have written in my last couple a blogs about the major issues happening the last two weeks with BM...Welp...here comes the biggest SHOCKER to everyone...

My not so DH was off Wednesday - and I was working. He was supposed to work all this weeked so the plan to be able to see the kids was to get them Thursday after school - do their homework, hang out, go to dinner, bathe them- put them in their pj's...and take them home around 8:30...

Custody?

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Tue, 04/17/2012 - 1:19pm

There's no custody agreement with BM...They are just here every weekend - every other if DH's work interferes but he still goes to get them for dinner during the week - a week does not go by he doesn't see them - the kids are used to it - it's been like this since they were babies. They talk to him every night unless BM decides she is mad about something...

Extreme PAS???

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Mon, 04/16/2012 - 11:45pm

My not so Dh calls BM's phone today and she picks up...I am in the other room and I can hear her screaming into the phone! She immediately starts BITCHING - They are SO annoying! They WILL NOT listen! (We already went through this last week.) DH says, "Great where are they and Well - they are little girls...if they aren't listening - do something about it - we don't have many issues here anymore really because we discipline them." SHE HANGS UP ON HIM!!!!!

Put your kids first...please!

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Mon, 04/16/2012 - 1:45am

Welp...this weekend the girls told us BM went to other baby daddy's to collect some of her mail and I guess she found a brochure that baby daddy had sent for to look at some houses - a friend of his told us he was looking to move as his house is right behind BM's parents and he can't start dating anyone bc he feels like everyone is constantly watching him...

Oh? You said your kids won't listen?

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Wed, 04/11/2012 - 12:41am

Sorry if I get distracted while writing this - FMIL is stomping around the house having a tantrum because she wants soup at 1:30...and not a can...soup from Panera apparently...

Boyfriend calls the kids tonight - as he does every night...conversation goes well until BM gets on the phone whining...and yelling at him..."These kids will NOT listen to me...I am at my breaking point!!" He says...welp...beat them. hahaha! (of course not literally.)

So he tells me this...and this is what I would have liked to have said to her:

BM and Grandmother and...ahhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Mon, 04/09/2012 - 1:38am

So uh...I can post this over and over again until I am blue in the damn face but my FMIL IS insane. Boyfriend(of almost 5 years) has a twin brother...who just had a baby with whom I will call FSIL2....I LOVE HER. She is like another sister. She fits in perfectly with the SIL and I and we all get along great and all go to eachother to deal with the 3 brothers and the horrible habits they have learned from their parents. We all work together. SIL and her husband also had a baby on the same day. Yes - two nephews in one day. They are gorgeous.

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