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Anyone watch Dr. Phil today? BM vs. SM

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Mon, 06/14/2010 - 3:04pm

I am enraged. I am enraged at the fact that Dr. Phil made it a point to tell one of the stepmothers that she is NOT the BM and should set boundaries.

Someone please tell me WTH our responsibilities are? If we do "too much" we are accused of trying to be the SK's biological mother- we are told we can't take place of the mother....(NO SHIT! MOST OF US DON'T WANT TO!)

If we disengage and take a weekend to primp ourselves we are evil b*tches that want nothing to do with the kids and who have no business being with someone who has children?

SERIOUSLY?????

FMIL/BM vs. FH - this is a mess - just ranting.

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Mon, 03/22/2010 - 3:53pm

My last two blogs were pretty easy to understand. I moved out of FMIL's where FH has to reside until I can get out of school and take over the business and pay our mortgage. (We'll have our own house by this time next yeeaarr! Finally!)

FMIl has gone mad. she is really angry that i moved out. FH has been keeping the kids away from her as much as possible. my last blog summed up real quick:

MOVING OUT - long

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Sat, 03/13/2010 - 5:02pm

I am doing it. I am finally packing up and going...I can't take the stress anymore. FMIL is so crazy she is wrecking everything. FH and I have sat down with her several times and told her we are saving up to move - we want what is best for the girls. But she asks for money - we give it to her because we are under her roof. We buy groceries and everything else. Living there is NOT benefiting us at all. It is impossible to save up. That is it.

On a brighter note...

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Mon, 03/08/2010 - 1:17am

This weekend was really fun after the drama of getting kids from BM (if you read my last post that was not agreed with by too many...)

we had a really really good weekend. It's like this - we either have amazing weekends or weekends where we want to rip out our hair. - We've been slowly getting away from the bad weekends though - thank goodness!

What do you do when BM tells lies?

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Submitted by unbelieveable on Mon, 03/01/2010 - 2:17am

I know I know...I am posting again.

I had a conversation with fsd7 this weekend...

we were in the car when she said she really wanted a baby brother...and she said, "You and my dad need to have a baby soon - mom says daddy is getting old..."

So I say - "Well, tell your mom to have another baby then...I don't want children, you two are enough for me to handle."

She says, "You are weird? Who doesn't want kids?"

I wanted to say - after having you two around - NO ONE WOULD WANT KIDS!

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