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BM left me a message saying she wants to improve our relationship as our New Year's resolutions. WTF? Need advice on response.
This woman has made it plain she believes her religion requires her to get back with SO, has been causing drama (most recently trying to make me reschedule my Christmas Eve party from Christmas Eve to Christmas the day before the party....ummm no)and has overall been a major PITA.
Once upon a time I thought we had a decent working relationship but then she lost her mind. I'm not sure what she's up to but I don't feel it's sincere at all. I have absolutely no desire to have any relationship with BM at all.
I feel sorry for SO.....BM has roundabout withheld visitation so far today....and he is not taking it well at all.
Today is SO's day with SS9, who has no school today. SO is a veteran. He planned to take the boys to see the Veteran's Day parade along with the pre and post activities our city has. SS9 told BM all about it and suddenly she decided to take SS9 and SD19 for a weekend trip. Last night SS9 told SO on the phone that they were having so much fun they were staying an extra night. SO tried to call BM, no answer. SO texts BM and tells her that today is his day and he has plans. No answer.
Pretty sure SO just pulled a "not my kid, not my problem" move....he will regret it shortly!!!!
I happened to go to bed early last night as between taking care of kids, working,taking care of SO who had shoulder surgery, being present at the hospital over 24 hours while AD19 gave birth, taking care of my disabled father, taking food to SO's father because his mom had knee surgery, and bringing SO's mom stuff in the skilled nursing facility where she is recovering, I have had a fucking EXHAUSTING week or so.
I am pissed! I just found out BM went Trick or Treating with my BS, SD & SS while I was at the hospital with AD19!
My adopted daughter 19 went into labor in the afternoon on Halloween and didn't deliver until late last night, so I am only finding this out today.
BM thinks my uterus may keep her out of Heaven- Is anybody here a doctor who can prescribe her something for being nuts?
Sooo not sure if anyone of you have read my other blogs..but in a nutshell about 1 1/2 yrs ago BM told SO she thought they didn't work hard enough to save their marriage and that she thought they could still work it out. Things have been going downhill from there. Couple weeks ago SS9 misinterpreted something I said to mean I wanted to have a baby & informed BM of this. She has been even more nuts since then texting me to see if it was true and wanting to know what birth control I use. When I did not respond she even went so far as to ask people in SO's family if we are TTC.
Oh really BM are you that dumb? Is it even possible?
So SS9 went home sick from school yesterday on SO's time, turns out he has strep. He can't go back to school for 48 hours, today is BM's time and she has to work plus an appointment she couldn't miss this morning. SO can't watch him either. I happen to have the option from working from home if needed, which has been relied on heavily for sick child care in the past.
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Bitch has lost her fucking MIND!!!!! Rant
So today I get a text from BM telling me that SS9 told her that I want a baby and that she hopes that isn't true as she feels SO cannot afford another child. Then she had the nerve to ask me what kind of birth control we are using so she can set her mind at ease. What the fuck is wrong with this bitch that she thinks that 1. I would even respond to her after the huge argument she started at SS9s activity 2. She has any input into my procreation decisions or lack thereof 3. She deserves to be privy to my personal medical information.
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SO told BM she is nothing more to him than the box SS9 came in!!!!!
I know that it's not very nice but I laughed sooooo hard when he said that!! BM has been causing all kinds of drama lately. BM and I got in an argument in public at SS9s activity (SS did not see but others did). SO has now banned us both from going to the activity for awhile. I am still deciding whether or not to honor the ban as I figure since I pay for the activity, I can go if I want to. But I also see the wisdom of staying away from BM for awhile, so we'll see.
I had a huge public argument w/ BM. I didn't start it, but still not cool. Now what? Long again, sorry.
So as I explained in previous post, drama flashes with BM have been escalating as she seems to want him back. Now I have held it in & held it in, but I finally lost my temper on her.
First post with background info, request for advice soon to follow. This is long, thanks for reading!
Okay I am glad to have found this site. I am hoping to get some input from different perspectives that will help me figure out what if anything I am supposed to do next in regards to a situation that has occurred between the BM and me. I will post that situation separately, after I introduce myself.