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SS acting entitled, DH starting shit with me because I called SS out on it
I am tired of the drama today. I was trying to be nice and offered SSstb11 a brand new iPhone5. He looked at me like I was crazy and said No I only want an iPhone5s. I said then you can wait for one of your parents to buy it for you.
Semi OT- Advice needed regarding argument between DH and my nephew, normal or cause for concern?
My 14 (nearly 15) year old nephew came to live with us in March. Yesterday after a 4 hour car ride to see a national attraction, the kids were all showing their asses. We were trying to get pictures and they were not cooperating at all. DH told all the kids if they didn't knock it off, we were leaving. Everyone but nephew got on board at that point. Nephew said he didn't need any fucking pictures. DH and nephew then got into a verbal spat.
Ooops....Guess that backfired, huh BM?
Poor BM's feelings got hurt and she made a fool of herself trying to invite herself to lunch with DH and skids.
BM and SD21 are going out of town together this weekend so SD21 will not see DH on Father's day. SD21 asked DH to have lunch with her so she could give him his gift. DH had SS11 so they were all going together.
When they arrived at the restaurant, DH noticed BM's car in the parking lot. He suggested they go to another restaurant. SD21 texted BM and informed DH that BM was having lunch with aunt, so they proceeded inside.
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Beneficiary drama, part 2. I think I am being more than fair, generous even. DH disagrees. What do you think?
Prior to our marriage in May, DH agreed in writing to sign all the spousal consents forms needed to keep my beneficiaries the same. Now that we are married, he is refusing. I am livid but have tried really hard to compromise with him.
Initially I was going to keep everything as it was prior to our marriage, which means my kids would get everything I have, period. I have reluctantly agreed to split 401k, pension benefits, cash and all assets evenly amongst DH, my kids (2 bio and 1 adopted) and my nephew. That is 5 ways.
BM demonstrates more of her extreme maturity and lack of jealousy regarding our wedding....NOT!
Apparently SD21 posted some of our wedding pics on Facebook (we were married on the 2nd). BM responded by posting some of her wedding pics with DH and asking all her "friends" to vote on which of DH's weddings had the best kiss, best dress, best cake etc.
I didn't see it myself as I don't Facebook, but my kids told me about it. It's just so juvenile and sad.
I wonder if BM realizes how pathetic all these antics make her seem? I kinda feel sorry for her that she has nothing better to do with her time.
Semi OT- I am offically Mrs. DH, despite BM's antics which were extreme!
We had the wedding Friday. It was beautiful and soooo much fun! Except for BM calling both her children every 5 minutes, calling DH every 10, calling the venue and sending the police to check on the kids when I turned off their phones.
She also decided at the 11th hour not to exercise her ROFR so we can't leave on the honeymoon until today as we had to make last minute arrangments.
Amazing that someone can be so ridiculous! Anyway DH is taking SS10 to school and then we are off. Just thought I'd let you guys know how it went while I have a minute.
Wedding is Friday....BM is being even more fun than usual (predictable but sooo annoying) and FDH is working my nerves. Rant!
FDH & I have been together six years so you wouldn't think getting married would bring out the crazy. BUT it does!!! BM has been a PITA in every way she can think of from guilt tripping SD21 about being in the wedding to trying to schedule activities for SS10 during the rehearsal to late night drama filled texts...predictable but so damn annoying!
BM's sister threw her under the bus! Funny but also very sad
We saw BM's older sister at party for one of DH's good friends. The friend is married to BM's stepniece. Anyway this is the first time I have been around BM's sister when BM was not there. She came up to me and started telling me how ridiculous BM's behavior is and that while she has to listen to her vent because she's her sister, as a stepparent herself she disagrees with her most of the time. Then she says, "Really I think BM hasn't been right in the head ever since she started abusing cocaine when she was a teen and young adult.
No getting married does NOT mean I will make you my beneficiary and YES our finances will remain separate! Vent
FDH and I are getting married in May. My life insurance policy requires spousal approval if the beneficiary will be anyone other than the spouse. My kids have always been my beneficiaries and always will be. I mentioned to FDH that he will need to sign the spousal approval form and he is acting like he won't. I told him if he doesn't agree then there will be no wedding. That policy is for my kids, period.
OT- When it rains it pours...I am pregnant! Surprised, happy but nervous. Also would like some advice
I went to the ob/gyn cause I was having some spotting for the last couple of weeks. I was worried something was wrong with me. The last thing I expected the Dr. to say was that it was because I am pregnant!!!
I am 37....my youngest bio is 14, I have a grandbaby and I just took in my 14 year old nephew.... pregnancy is totally unexpected! I am using the same BC the same way I have been since bs14 was born and never had any issues before.