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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Thu, 11/17/2011 - 10:05pm

I really want to rip someone a new one. Sorry for the excessive curses- when Im riled I get my military mouth back on. }:)

I know I shouldn't because my H has said he doesn't like me to, but I read the text messages between my H and the BM. Not because I dont trust him marriage wise, but because I dont trust her nor him to remind me of important things.
Well I stumbled upone this gem from last Monday:

Im ready to give up...<H RANT>

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Wed, 11/02/2011 - 7:36pm

Not on my stepson, but on his father. My darling husband.

I'm really at the end of my rope with him. When our relationship started, he told me, he wasn't sure what his rights and stuff were and considering my knowledge and my parent's wealth of information- he asked me to help him keep track of things.

Halloween & other custody items...for other 50/50 parents of school-age

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Fri, 10/28/2011 - 7:57pm

This all came up with Halloween custody... And it kind of has two seperate items to it.

Currently the custody order, a 50/50, states that all holidays will be alternated, including Halloween and the child's birthday. It also states a schedule for Christmas, noting times for switch on Christmas Eve to Christmas and even-odd years. My H's issue is and has always been BM doesnt celebrate Halloween or Chirstmas.

Private Investigator

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Sun, 10/16/2011 - 12:11am

Would has hired one to tail BM? Was it worth it?

I mean of course most of us SM get curious for what exactly BM does in free weekends, you know when we're babysitting their child(ren). But it's become a serious question for us, my H more, because he really wants to know where his child support is going to. BM doesnt work and has no living expense other than her cellphone and gas. Has anyone had a PI for this purpose and been able to report the misuse of funds successfully?

o silly BM...

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 12:30am

So a couple weeks ago BM was in a "serious car accident" involving a "police coverup" that she was probably "going to sue the police department over" and she "couldnt drive" because her "back was sooo messed up".
The accident was on a Sunday night. Shes supposed to drop off on Thursday evenings. Plenty of time to figure out something right? nope. She got MIL to drive SS down here that Thursday night at 8 pm (its about an hour drive back and forth) when MIL works a 6am -3 shift.

calm

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Wed, 10/05/2011 - 4:42pm

I just thought I'd post how much more relaxed I am now that I dont talk to BM. Who wouldve guessed something so simple is so stress relieving.

I get a little worked up when H and her talk because every time my husband sends her a text about SS, she calls him back. But instead of getting super hyper about everything, I say 'aww that sucks for you babe'

So much easier now that I've stepped back and let him deal with her!

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