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Long night- no sleep- Vent- Need help! Part #1- Aunt "passed away"

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Fri, 12/05/2014 - 6:55am

Ugh! Super tired. I got no sleep.

It's about 11 last night (which is late for me and DH to be going to bed) and we are heading to bed and his work phone rings. Okay. He deals with that. In the bedroom. Light on. Loud as f*ck. Whatever, it sounds like he is about to go out on a call and I can get to sleep- awesome.

At 11:30 his personal cell phone rings 2xs and then a text. It's OSD22.

So DH finishes his work call and calls OSD back.

Everyone has a nickname for BM.....

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Wed, 12/03/2014 - 7:54am

"Everyone" has a nickname for BM.... now thanks to a fellow SM here, I too now have a name for BM- Mrs Claus!

I really think Mrs Claus is too sweet of a name for that wrench, but since that is what she looked like on her wedding day (just photoshop in grey hair) then that is what she should be called!

So let's do a recap of the name you call BM and why......(so we are all on the ame page Wink )

OMG BM Got married over the weekend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Tue, 12/02/2014 - 7:51am

Snooping on FB- OSD posted a pic "My beautiful mother on her wedding day." OMGGGGGGGGGGGG!

I have BM blocked so I am not able to look at her pics. But I was able to hop over to her new husband's page and there is one pic of BM and her DH and the kids (his and hers). Minus MSD and GB, which is kind of weird.

YSD is in a straight up hooker dress! As in if she bent over it would show her vag.

BM wore a red dress with a white jacket.

BM being married doesnt really change anything. Well I guess I am now the only Mrs DH out there!!! woooooooo!

Fighting with DH- why does he say this????

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Tue, 12/02/2014 - 7:27am

DH is on call this week for work.

So what happens every time he is on call.

He gets a call in the middle of the night and he is dead asleep and doesnt hear the phone ring. So the phone just keeps ringing and ringing and ringing and then goes to VM so it just keeps beeping and beeping and beeping. And DH is dead asleep and I am trying to wake him up. I HATE being woke up. I'd rather have lunch with BM then be woke up when I am trying to sleep.

MSD19 got fired from her job

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Tue, 12/02/2014 - 7:05am

I guess MSD19 lost her job last week.

She was supposedly a manager at some clothing store that sells over stock of namebrand clothes. She has been there for about a year, maybe a little longer.

DH said "Yeah MSD lost her job because of talking about her drama with her baby's dad."

I'm pretty positive that is probably not true and that is just what MSD told DH. She's had "baby daddy drama" the whole she has worked there.

MSD is a known liar, thief and manipulator.

I would almost bet my first born that she was stealing. That is her M.O.

YSD to DH: I need an advance on my Christmas gift

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 12/01/2014 - 8:28am

YSD sent DH a text on Thanksgiving. No Happy Thanksgiving, etc.

YSD: Can I get an advance on my Christmas gift so I can go Black Friday shopping. $150 should do.

WTF????????? :jawdrop:

DH told her no of course.

Never has she gotten $150 worth of gifts from DH for Xmas. So not sure why she thought that this year would be any different.

Then yesterday she texted DH that she got her learners permit and that she needs DH to help her find a car. She did not ask for cash for a car yet... but I am sure it's coming. She doesnt turn 16 until the Spring time.

Okay to purposely Exclude some of the skids???

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Wed, 11/26/2014 - 9:24am

I would prefer at all costs to not have MSD and YSD at my house ever again. I have had issues with stealing and balant disrespect with them. It's not fun when they are here. So there is no point. DH visits YSD15 outside the home and MSD is 19 (actually today) so she is an adult.

SS21 lived with DH and lived with us when DH and I moved in together. SS and I get along. When he lived with us, I spent a lot of time with SS and enjoyed his company and being around him for the most part. Sometimes when he comes around, I actually miss him a teeny tiny bit.

Seriously what is it with the Pet Names?

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Wed, 11/26/2014 - 9:07am

My niece19 did not grow up with her bio father and family. It wasnt until a couple of years ago that they started having a relationship. (long story)

I know biofather family well. Bio Aunt is actually one of my best friends.

Anyways, EVERY SINGLE TIME my niece posts something on FB, biodad and usually biograndma and some of the aunts (there are 5 aunts) goo-goo gaa and pet name talk my niece.

I tell her they are always her co-signers on FB. LOL. No matter what she posts they always post something.

Niece on FB:

What are you thankful for?

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Wed, 11/26/2014 - 6:21am

So let's think positive and share what we are thankful for Smile

Of course I am thankful for my friends and family who I dont see enough Sad but still have great relationships with.

I am thankful that I have a job, house, car and that I dont struggle every month.

I am thankful for ST and the friendships I have made here. ST has helped me A LOT.

Halle Berry's newest court case

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Tue, 11/25/2014 - 12:07pm

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/halle-berry-takes-exboyfriend-t...

So what do you all think about this?

Halle Berry comes across as REALLY high conflict.

I dont agree with the dad coloring the girls hair. But I would also like to know what exactly it means by "coloring" it. Was it temporary spray in stuff for kids? Just something for fun?

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