Inspired by Hangings blog:
http://www.steptalk.org/node/209314

So I'm curious....As the adult in the house, the SM, what should she be doing and not doing?

I'm sure we can all agree that SM's DH is putting off the responsibilty of the kids on the SM. That the SM may be disengaged or wanting to be disengaged. That the DH is the main problem when it comes to the kids being taken care of when they are at dad's. Sounds like to an extent they are being ignored and purposely.

Regarding this post from yesterday.

http://www.steptalk.org/node/208882

So last night, as we are in bed for the night, I ask DH "So what is going on with MSD's BF that is so bad."

DH acted like he didnt hear me/basically ignored me while I repeated the question like 3 more times.

Finally he mumbles "Dont worry about it."

"I'm too busy working on my own grass to notice if yours is any greener."

If we (and I say we because I am guilty of being jealous at times too) spent more time worrying about our own lives, our own marriages, our own houses, our own bio kids, etc we wouldnt care what BM has.

Now I know with CS going out the door and BMs not using it for what it should be used for, it affects us SMs, etc. But really, why spend any of your time worrying about this shit?

Another quote "If you dont like something, change it. If you cant change it, change the way you think about it."

About a month ago YSD15 texts DH that she has her permit and can he look for a car for her, on the cheap?

Sure, no problem. She wasnt asking him to buy her a car, just look for a car.

Well then starts the constant texts.

"Daddddyyy have you found any cars."

"Daddddyyy car"

"Car"

"Daddddyyyyyy"

"Any cars yet?"

I'm thinking OMFG, you aren't even 16 yet. You cant even put a damn car in your name. Chill out.

Well then it starts again over the weekend.