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Started out good now is so down hill.

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Submitted by alwaysthemom on Mon, 02/14/2011 - 9:02pm

First off.....My SS14 said in front of everyone that the HB side of the family is nothing but druggies and trash. Not true whatsoever. I was livid. I wanted to snap back and say are you sure your talking about the right side of your family or are you just trying to piss me off. I so wanted to punch him in the mouth. He got mad at me cause I took away his IPhone his BM bought him just for the ipod part of it.(it has no service) He is grounded for poor grades and It's not fair for him to have his electronics if no one else can either.

Cell phone

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Submitted by alwaysthemom on Mon, 01/31/2011 - 9:07pm

We were thinking about getting SD a cell phone maybe for Christmas this coming year. She is 12 now. The only thing we have an issue with is the fact that everytime SD12 gets mad at someone in the house or doesn't get her way she wants to call her BM and tattle(if you will). Using the home phone she asks to use it. When these issues have come up in the past I've told her.....you may use the phone to call and talk to your mom but you will not use it to tell on your brother or cry about not getting your way or when you think things aren't fair.

Christmas

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Submitted by alwaysthemom on Mon, 01/03/2011 - 10:32pm

Is it ok for a BM to spend all her money on herself and other kid and not Skids? My skids got $20 for Christmas from their BM and had to wait for that for a week. BM spent 2hrs with them the whole 2 week break. Seriously!! It happens every year to them. I can't stand to look at their sad faces. Breaks my heart. Sad I don't like that they have to deal with their selfish mother and then try to defend her actions.

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Submitted by alwaysthemom on Mon, 08/30/2010 - 9:56pm

Wow!!! He immasculated HB on facebook for all the world to see. Just because he got in trouble for running off after school with a friend(did not ask) HB is hurt. SS13 is grounded because of what happened. Beforehand he didn't want to go to BM house this weekend but since he messed up he went and then talked trash about HB on FB when at BM's living quarters(her mom and dads))he was grounded from all electronics at our house). Dear BM basically threw gas on that fire. SS13 ran the streets for two days by himself.(GPS his phone) What the heck is going on? PAS on BM part I think.

Getting to the point that I am very annoyed....

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Submitted by alwaysthemom on Tue, 06/01/2010 - 10:02pm

I submitted a bill for my daughters meds and eye doc visit to my ex. $25, ExH is suppose to pay 1/2 of uncovered costs. Well his wife has beeen calling me, harassing me about it and throwing a fit. I told her politely...I am not discussing my daughters business with you, I will speak with her dad. Come to find out ex's wife called docs office demanding info. She keeps calling me and texting me and frankly I'm pissed. My mom says not to speak with her anymore, she has no business calling me about my kids. Is my mom right?

Stepped up to the plate

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Submitted by alwaysthemom on Mon, 03/01/2010 - 10:30pm

Well I don't want to make this too long but.......BM has a child by another man who was recently released from prison. He was in for indecentcy with a child and endangerment of a child. BM has hooked back up with him on account of their child together apparently and her myspace says she "loves" him.(GAG!!!) BMs present BF at this time contacted us in regards to this matter. BM dumped him and has told him to basically go away I want to be with Chester,Chester child molester. Anyway, HB decided to not let skids go to their BMs this past weekend because we were going out of town.

Tell me how to deal with a BM that undermines the authority in your home

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Submitted by alwaysthemom on Tue, 02/02/2010 - 10:26pm

SS13 has been grounded for poor grades. We took away his cell phone. BM apparently buys him a cell(go phone) this past weekend and he sneaks it into our house. Mind you SS lives full time with DH and me. My Biodaughter brought it to my attention tonight that SS has a cell. I took it away. Bad grades, no phone. SD11 says SS13 has that phone from my BM so he can have his privacy. What I'm pissed about is the fact that SS13 knew that he was grounded and BM knew we took his(the one we pay for) cell away for poor grades.

Need to vent a little

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Submitted by alwaysthemom on Mon, 01/25/2010 - 6:43pm

SS13 has been grounded for failing on his report card. For Christmas we got him a new phone and he got to keep it until report cards came out. The stipulations were....passing grades, good behavior, do your chores. Pretty fair I think. He hasn't made any effort on the grades. Doesn't do his homework, low test scores etc. SS lives with us full time. Anyway, BM apparently thinks this is wrong and is going to buy him a phone this weekend since we took his away. How can you try to coparent with someone who disregards everything you try to do as a parent to instill responsibility?

No Peace

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Submitted by alwaysthemom on Tue, 01/05/2010 - 10:34pm

Skids have been at their moms for a week. Really could care less if they came back. They care nothing for their dad or any of us in this house. They just use us. Sometimes I wish they would jusy go.

Haven't been on here

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Submitted by alwaysthemom on Tue, 10/20/2009 - 9:08pm

in a while. That's a good thing right? Just wanted to give some love to all the boys and girls on Steptalk. Hope you all see the rainbow at the end of the storm....but while that storm goes on you give it your all. Shout out to my sweetie Cruella!!! Lots of Love.

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